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The Heart

Lovemaps

The Heart

Kaitlin Prest

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.52.3K Ratings

🗓️ 5 November 2013

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Episode Seven.

Psychologist and sexologist, John Money came up with the theory of a lovemap. A lovemap is a template. It’s a template that we are constantly measuring our sexual and romantic experiences against. It’s the map of what we like, who we like and how we like it. Money’s idea is that we all have one, and they tend to be pretty specific, right down to how exactly you need to be touched to have an orgasm. In this episode of Audio Smut we explore different kinds of lovemaps; sexual lovemaps that deviate from preconceived notions of what is suppose to happen when one body meets another, dating lovemaps unveiling our tendencies in relationships and finally, the physical map of touch.

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Hi, welcome to AudioSmart. A radio show about your body, your heart and your

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junk. I'm Mitra and this episode is all about love maps.

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A love map is a template. It's the map of what we like, who we like and how we like it.

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So our romantic tendencies, our dating patterns and habits, our type.

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This sexologist psychologist named John Money came up with the idea in the 1980s.

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The idea is that we all have one and it tends to be pretty specific.

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Write down to how exactly we need to be touched to have an orgasm.

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