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Dear Future Wifey

Love & Leadership (Guests: Dr. Alduan & Mecca Tartt)

Dear Future Wifey

Laterras R. Whitfield

Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Education, Christianity, Society & Culture

5 β€’ 1.9K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 2 July 2025

⏱️ 142 minutes

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Summary

This week’s episode features a dynamic conversation with Dr. Alduan & Mecca Tartt—a power couple whose love story challenges traditional gender roles while highlighting the beauty of mutual respect, faith, and growth. We dive deep into:

πŸ’₯ Their unique dating journey and how Mecca—an unapologetic alpha woman—set the pace

❀️ What it looks like to pursue and court a strong woman who knows what she wants

πŸ‘¨‍πŸ‘©‍πŸ‘§‍πŸ‘¦ Navigating parenting, the decision to expand their family, and how they raise their daughters

πŸ› οΈ Real talk about compromise, reconciliation, and the work required to build lasting love This is not just a relationship—it’s a partnership rooted in purpose.

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0:00.0

The number one reason why couples get divorced in a year with sexual incompatibility.

0:05.1

They're like, I can deal with a lot of things.

0:06.4

This is not one.

0:07.4

God wants sex to be in the kingdom, and the church is afraid to talk about that.

0:11.4

Dr. Aldewan Tart and his lovely wife, Mecca Tart is in the building.

0:15.4

I had a romantic interest when he walked in the door.

0:17.6

I saw him on TV, but it was the first time since, like, high school

0:21.4

love that someone gave me butterflies. And I was like, hmm, he might be my one. Run your receipts now.

0:27.1

What shows have you been on? Love addiction on TV One, Fantasia for Real, housewives. But the one she's

0:32.8

talking about was MTV made. Yeah. This woman's not falling over her feet for me. I even told her. I was like, you know, I'm dating somebody else.

0:39.1

I'm trying to decide who I want to get serious with.

0:41.4

And she says, well, that doesn't have anything to do with me.

0:43.4

I know. I know what it is. Of course he would be,

0:45.3

right? This is a successful man that's attractive.

0:47.7

But I knew what I brought to the table.

0:49.7

I was hot when she met me. Second, third date, BET Awards. She's on a red carpet with me. You brought

0:55.4

her with you. Right. So, yeah, I saw, I was like, no, she ain't never done no red carpet. I try to kiss her.

0:59.1

She leans back. And I said, look, just be honest. If you don't like me, just say you don't like me. wonderful time. I'm not the type of woman that's just going to kiss anyone, especially on the third

1:11.4

date. You were able to regulate your emotion. Because the woman sets the pace and the tone of the

1:17.0

relationship. A gangster. That's what I'm trying to tell you. But you know what? This is how I want my

1:21.8

daughters to date. My mom would be clapping. Oh, my skin, Curley, I didn't do nothing for her.

1:28.9

She ain't even facing this dude.

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