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The Stacking Benjamins Show

Love It or Leave It: Financial Edition (SB1803)

The Stacking Benjamins Show

Joe Saul-Sehy and Josh ‘OG’ Bannerman, CFP

Personal Finance, Financial Planning, Education, Retirement, Investing, Cfp, Business, Money

4.42K Ratings

🗓️ 13 February 2026

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

Nothing says romance like a heated debate about the 4% rule.

Live from the basement (which suspiciously resembles YouTube headquarters), Joe Saul-Sehy, OG, Neighbor Doug, and the panel celebrate Valentine's Day weekend the only way Stackers know how: by putting their favorite financial ideas on the hot seat.

This isn't a polite discussion. It's a rapid fire "love it or leave it" showdown where popular money strategies either get roses or get shown the door.

On the chopping block:

  • Paying off a low interest mortgage early: financial freedom or opportunity cost disaster?
  • The FIRE movement: empowering clarity or accidental misery?
  • Lifestyle inflation: natural evolution or silent wealth killer?
  • Real estate as passive income: dream scenario or second job in disguise?
  • The 4% rule: reliable rule of thumb or outdated security blanket?
  • Budgeting apps: behavior changer or digital guilt machine?

Expect strong opinions. Expect pushback. Expect OG to bring spreadsheets to a knife fight. Expect Doug to stir the pot. And expect at least one take that makes you argue out loud in your car.

Along the way, the crew swaps Valentine's Day plans, reviews survey results from listeners, and throws down in a trivia challenge that could shake up the leaderboard. With margin call rules in play, nobody's position is safe.

What You'll Discover:

  • Which popular financial strategies hold up under scrutiny and which ones deserve a breakup
  • Why smart people disagree about mortgage payoff strategies
  • Whether the FIRE movement creates freedom or just different problems
  • The truth about lifestyle inflation and when it's okay versus when it's dangerous
  • Why real estate investing is rarely as passive as it sounds
  • Whether the 4% rule still works or needs serious revision
  • If budgeting apps actually help or just make you feel guilty
  • How to question your own financial assumptions without second guessing everything

This Episode Is For You If:

  • You want to understand WHY you believe what you believe about money
  • You're tired of one-size-fits-all financial advice
  • You enjoy hearing smart people debate and disagree respectfully
  • You've been following certain money rules without questioning if they fit YOUR life
  • You believe the most loving thing you can do for your financial plan is challenge it

This episode is for anyone who doesn't just want answers but wants to understand the thinking behind them. Because sometimes the most loving thing you can do for your financial plan is break up with strategies that aren't serving you anymore.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

I ought to slug you.

0:02.0

Ugh! I've been kissed by a dog! I have dog germs! Get hot water, get some disinfectant, get some iodine! Ah! Live from the basement of the YouTube headquarters, it's the Stacking Benjamin's show.

0:30.2

I'm Joe's mom's neighbor Dougan to kick off Valentine's Day weekend.

0:33.9

We thought we'd get all romantic with some financial ideas.

0:39.0

Or not?

0:40.9

That's right.

0:41.8

Today we're asking our Friday panelists some concepts and asking, love it or leave it?

0:47.5

From investments to insurance and estate planning, to taxes and to that high school

0:52.1

crush you're still following on Insta.

0:55.4

We'll cover it all.

0:56.8

But that's not all.

1:02.6

We're halfway through Q1 and OGs stakes a big lead in this year's trivia challenge.

1:04.2

Will he get margin called? And now, a guy who on Valentine's Day weekend finds nothing more romantic than lighten some candles,

1:10.6

protecting his identity and canceling subscriptions.

1:13.7

It's Joe Saul C-I.

1:17.6

Oh, you're poor wife.

1:20.8

Does this sound romantic?

1:23.0

I think that sounds very romantic.

1:25.2

Hey, everybody.

1:26.1

Happy Friday. Welcome back to the Stacky Benjamin show.

1:29.7

It is Valentine's Day. Love is in the air. And I love hanging out with all of our people on

1:34.3

YouTube. It is clearly pandering, but also ready to have some fun. Let's say hello, by the way,

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