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Analysis

Love Island, dating apps and the politics of desire

Analysis

BBC

News, Politics

4.61K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2019

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

For centuries we have met our other halves through family, friends, work, or religious institutions. But they have all now been outstripped: meeting online is now the most common way to meet. Not long ago, finding love online was considered unconventional. Now the ping of dating apps is the soundtrack to many people's lives. But what does this change mean for how we choose whom to date? Shahidha Bari, author and academic at Queen Mary University of London, examines the changing landscape of modern love - its dating apps, its politics of sexual preference - and ultimately tries to answer the age-old question: what does Love Island tell us about love?

Producer: Ant Adeane

Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:04.6

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0:36.1

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0:40.1

In this edition, Shahid Abari considers the changing landscape of how we find love.

0:45.0

How did you find the love of your life?

0:48.0

Maybe you met through mutual friends.

0:55.0

Perhaps your eyes locked across a crowded bar.

0:59.0

Or was it at the office Christmas party that Cupids Arrow struck.

1:03.4

For centuries most of us met our other halves

1:08.7

through friends, family, religious institutions, or at work.

1:13.3

But now something fundamental has changed

1:16.5

about the way we form relationships.

1:19.2

The latest data suggests that being introduced by friends is no longer the most common way that new couples meet.

1:27.0

So, if you're still looking for that special someone, the sound most likely to get your heart racing might be this,

1:36.0

or this, or one of these.

1:40.0

Not long ago, meeting online was considered unconventional.

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