Love, intimacy and connection in the age of AI | Bryony Cole
TED Talks Daily
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ποΈ 7 March 2026
β±οΈ 46 minutes
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Relationships were never meant to be efficient, says sextech expert Bryony Cole, and yet AI companions are increasingly designed to be exactly that. As intimate relationships between humans and AI become more common, Cole challenges us to think more deliberately about how we shape our connections to machines β and with each other. (This conversation, hosted by TED's Whitney Pennington Rodgers, was part of an exclusive TED Membership event. TED Membership is the best way to support and engage with the big ideas you love from TED. To learn more, visit ted.com/membership.)
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to TED Talks Daily, where we bring you new ideas to spark your curiosity every day. |
| 0:09.1 | I'm your host, Elise Hugh. |
| 0:11.0 | Relationships were never meant to be efficient, said sex tech expert Brian E. Cole. |
| 0:15.4 | And yet AI companions are increasingly designed to be exactly that. |
| 0:19.4 | Last month, we shared her TED talk on this feed |
| 0:21.9 | about what happens when you develop an intimate relationship with an AI |
| 0:25.7 | and why it's time for us to think deliberately |
| 0:28.4 | about how we shape our connections to machines and with each other. |
| 0:33.0 | And so the question is no longer, |
| 0:36.3 | well, we fall in love with AI? |
| 0:41.5 | It's what happens now that we already have. |
| 0:46.2 | Briani recently joined TED curator Whitney Pennington Rogers for a follow-up conversation about how the rapid advancement of AI is forcing us to expand our understanding of love |
| 0:51.3 | and what it might look like. |
| 0:53.1 | They discuss the opportunities and ethical |
| 0:55.1 | questions that come with it and what we can do to build more connected, authentic relationships |
| 1:00.5 | in these uncharted times. How comfortable are we with a world in which, yeah, everything is |
| 1:07.6 | automatic, does everything is efficient, including our thoughts and needs, and do we want to live in that world? |
| 1:15.6 | That's coming up right after a short break. |
| 1:26.1 | And now our conversation of the day. |
| 1:28.3 | Hello and welcome TED members. |
| 1:31.3 | I'm Whitney Pennington Rogers. I'm a curator here at TED, and I am thrilled to be here with you for today's live event. |
| 1:38.3 | As technology has become more embedded in our daily lives, it's also quietly reshaping something deeply human, how we connect, |
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