What's up guys, this is David Marvin. I'm here with my friend Jonathan Pecluda. What's

going on? And Elena, Haas, our social media and digital coordinator. Hey guys.

And we are excited to do a frequently asked questions to close out our dating series.

First comes a love. If you have been listening, you have heard us go through a series on dating,

and all things that are involved in that. And normally when we do a dating series, we will do a

FAQ, a Q&A session, a question and answer. And we were not able to do one live this year. So we

are recording one to be a resource to use. So we're going to go through some questions for the next

30-year-so minutes and cover some of the stuff that gets emailed in every week or ask down

front after messages at the porch. And we are excited to be here. All right. Let's go through

something. So, hey, there may not be a simple answer to this. But JP, I will hear guys are passive.

Christian guys can be the worst at times. So girls will we inevitably lead to ask, can a girl just

ask a guy out? Yes. Next question. Here's a good one. Can't get your whole, all things are

all things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial. And so is that God's design? No,

I don't think it is. Is that best? Absolutely not. You've heard it said, Treasurers, don't do the hunting.

I think there's holes and depends on where you're at and the circumstance and what's going on. But I

think the best thing is that men would be the pursuers and would not be passive and would pursue

women and be intentional and use their words. But sometimes that doesn't happen. And I think a

woman has to wrestle with it. Am I trying to control the situation? And I think in most of those

situations and circumstances that I've been in and as we've talked, I mean, it is an issue of

control. They get tired of waiting on God. They get tired of waiting on men. And I think you want to

be really cognizant of what you might end up with, which is that passive man. And so I would say

be really careful of where that's going to, the road that that's going to put you on, because you

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