Love Costs A Thing with Allison Raskin and Bela Gandhi

Bad With Money With Gabe Dunn

Gabe Dunn | Diamond MPrint Productions

Business, Careers, Investing, Education

4.6 • 2.6K Ratings

🗓️ 11 May 2022

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Should love cost a thing? This week, Gaby talks to Bela Gandhi of the Smart Dating Academy on what happens when you pay to find love, what we're all doing wrong, and reframing the work you put in to be in a satisfying and loving relationship. Then, Gaby's co-host on their other show Just Between Us Allison Raskin joins to talk about her book Overthinking About You: Navigating Romantic Relationships When You Have Anxiety, OCD, and/or Depression and about her own experiences paying for dating -- and why the stigma around that should be eliminated. Plus, how do you let someone down easy? Ooof. TW: light discussion of height as it relates to transphobia Gaby Dunn Instagram: @GabyRoad BWM Instagram: @bwmpod BWM Facebook group: http://tinyurl.com/badwithmoneyfb The BWM Discord channel: https://discord.gg/dAdxj4JMER Find Gaby on Patreon: patreon.com/gabydunn Shop gabydunn.com/shop for merch! For a full transcript of this episode, visit: https://bit.ly/3PmRc5n Bad with Money is produced, edited, sound engineered and mixed by Elif Geris. The theme song was performed by Sam Barbara and written by Myq Kaplan, Zach Sherwin, and Jack Dolgen. Additional music by Joey Salvia. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Gabby Dunn and this is Bad With Money.
0:26.0	A show about finances and feelings where we don't talk down to you.
0:30.4	You guys like that?
0:31.4	I've been using that as the intro.
0:33.0	I feel like it really works.
0:34.6	If you have other suggestions for intros, let me know.
0:37.6	Paying for dating.
0:39.8	A controversial subject.
0:43.0	All our media for decades and decades has made it seem like the only perfect romance
0:48.4	was one that happened organically.
0:51.0	Often when the leads were least expecting it.
0:54.0	Love is magic.
0:55.0	You can't force it or be looking for it or else you're pathetic.
0:59.4	And it should be effortless.
1:01.1	And chemistry should be something you can't control and you have to go with it.
1:05.0	A passive victim.
1:07.1	This is toxic.
1:09.0	It keeps people in abusive relationships because of some misguided idea that they're at
1:13.0	the whim of the universe and faded to be with this one person.
1:16.9	It keeps people who desperately want to start a life with a partner or partners from
1:20.9	putting in the effort to meet new people and date productively.
1:24.5	It's sad.
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