Love, Chaos, and the Hot/Crazy Scale Explained

De-Influenced with Dani + Jordan

Dani Austin

Society & Culture

4.4 • 4.8K Ratings

🗓️ 6 November 2025

⏱️ 79 minutes

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It’s one of those episodes where Dani and Jordan cover everything — from random life updates and hilarious catch-up stories to the latest Love Is Blind drama and the ever-controversial Hot/Crazy Scale. The two dive deep into dating logic (or lack thereof), southern relationship culture, and the “SEC couple stigma” that no one wants to admit is real. It’s messy, funny, and way too relatable — just how we like it. We scored some great deals with a few of our favorite brands for our listeners: Function is a near-360 view to see what's happening in your body, and my first 1000 listeners get a $100 credit toward their membership. Visit www.functionhealth.com/DANI or use gift code DANI100 at sign-up to own your health. For 55% off your order + FREE shipping, head to NurtureLife.com/DEINFLUENCED and use code DEINFLUENCED Don't settle for less than evidence-based support. My listeners get early access to their Black Friday sale for 40% off your first month at Ritual.com/DEINFLUENCED We've worked out a special deal with Hiya for their best selling children's vitamin. Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/DANIAUSTIN. This deal is not available on their regular website. Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to Quince.com/dani for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Right now, Tonal is offering something special just for my listeners. You can go to Tonal.com and use promo code DANI to get $200 off your Tonal purchase. Bring your traditions to life with independent art and design this holiday season. Use code DANI for 20% off Minted Holiday Cards, Gifts and Wrapping Paper. Make sure you’re subscribed to our official channel on YouTube, @deinfluencedpodcast, and follow us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your De-Influenced fix! Stay connected with us on Instagram and TikTok @deinfluencedpodcast, and as always thank you for being a part of this journey. We love y'all!! Produced by Dear Media

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a dear media production.
0:10.6	Hello, and welcome back to your favorite podcast, de-influenced.
0:15.1	Don't worry, he's back.
0:16.8	Somebody left a comment this morning was like, Danny, don't you ever take him away from from us for three months ever again I think it was two months I took myself away yeah I did it I
0:27.0	know I was like wait don't buy that was my fault also always blame it on the female just kidding
0:32.6	sorry I listened to a podcast this morning about, wait, let me read the title just because
0:40.6	I have to admit, like, hold on, it was modern wisdom, like, you know, one of my favorites.
0:48.7	And the podcast was called How to Fix the Culture of Emasculated Men, which I was like, oh, like, okay, interesting.
0:58.7	Like, literally world's smallest violin when I was listening. And like, you know, I have three sons.
1:04.0	And so, like, I, of course, I'm like, yes, like men stand up and lead and be amazing. Like, you know, I'm, I'm like, I'm like a feminist in a very, like, conservative way when it comes to feminism. Yeah. Like, I'm all about, like, working and leading and all this stuff. Except I don't think that a female should be president. Yeah, we talked about that.
1:29.7	TBD on whether you get... It's just too emotional.
1:31.0	Like, you know, if you watch the movie that we talked about last week, you know what I mean.
1:34.5	Like, Putin's being such a douche right now.
1:36.5	Like, just bomb him.
1:38.9	Sorry, too much.
1:41.6	But, like, oh my gosh, this podcast, you you know just having two dudes talk about how men are just
1:49.1	like so underval i was like oh my god like literally we just started being able to vote and like
1:55.1	don't get it like i do get it but this the way that they were talking about it, I was just like, but they felt so validated talking about it together. And I was just like, no. So hold on. So the podcast was about emasculated men. Yeah, I didn't finish it. Culturally. Which is a thing. No, for sure. For sure. It's for sure a thing. Like, I think we can talk about that without complaining about it.
2:21.7	Sure.
2:22.1	But what was their, what was their take on how men have been emasculated?
2:29.2	Like, what were examples they're showing of emasculated men?
2:33.8	Just that, like, the suicide rates are like, like so much higher for men.
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