What is going on, beautiful people? Welcome to another episode of the Narcissus Code. I'm your favorite self-aware

Narcissus, Mr. Lee Hemic, better known as mental illness across all social media platforms. This is the first time

seeing my face or hearing my voice. I may diagnose Narcissus. They use my platform on social media to raise awareness for

MPD, get more people into therapy, and also validate the victims and survivors and drivers of said disorder. Today's episode is going to be

about how love after Narcissus' relationship seems boring. You don't want love to be boring. This video is inspired by one of my

friends, her name is Carly. She goes about red, high heels, H-E-A-L-S, red, high heels on all social media platforms. But she did a video very recently.

She's a survivor of Narcissus abuse. She's a relation with a Narcissus person. She helps other people get through it. She did this video, said she doesn't want love to be

boring. It was a nice little video and whatnot. I talked to survivors and victims and drivers all the time. Literally, all the time. That's a common theme when they get out of these

relationships and they're looking for the next relationship or whatever. They want to find love again and things like that.

They always seem to say that it just doesn't feel right. This next person just seems boring compared to my ex. The thing is just boring. It doesn't feel right.

It feels like this normal, normal quote unquote normal, non-narcissistic love is boring. I'm trying to figure out how to, you know, and I just tell people, this is what I tell people.

Peace looks boring to those who are not accustomed to it. A piece of love is peace, y'all. Love is not turmoil. Love should not hurt. Love is not painful. And things like that. I know people are going to already look. Let me get ahead of y'all already.

I know what you're going to say. Lead your narcissist and you don't know what love is. We get it. We understand how you think you know about me. And what you think, you know, you think love is and whatnot. I get it. Trust me. I get it. I hear it. I see it. I feel it every single day.

But most people when you get out of toxic relationships and things like that and you try to go date somebody else is going to see it might seem boring.

Because the love bombing phase is intense. When you're dealing with a narcissist or toxic person, the love bombing phase of that narcissistic toxic relationship is going to be intense. It just is. That's when I'm talking to people and you see the videos online online about from other survivors and things like that.

And they say the love bombing phase was like none other. The connection we had was incredible. I've never felt as connected as someone as I do to this person or as I did to this person.

So and then moves really, really fast. Right. Love moves really, really fast in the relationship with a narcissist. It just does. It's not going to be slow moving love. Typically. So not it can't be. But like typically it's going to be fast moving high paced, you know, instant gratification. Pretty much like microwave. Oh, yeah. There we go.

Yeah, now let's just just kick them. I saw the talking. Narcissistic narcissistic relationships and narcissistic love is like microwave relationship. You put it in there. It's quick. It's quick to heat. You put it on 30 seconds. The timer goes off really quick. You cook food quicker. You cooked the relationship quicker. It moves faster. Normal.

Non. The quote unquote normal. Non narcissistic relationships or slow boil. There you have to put them in the oven.

Croc pot love. It takes a while to get there. But when it's when it when you finish it when the when it's tender, when meat or the soup or the stew is ready, whatever you got in the croc pot.

It might take a while to get there. But it's worth it when you finally get when you finally get you finally get it.

So narcissistic love is just like microwave love is quick. It's instant gratification and things like that is quick fast pace.

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