Lori Lee & The Abusive Neglectful Father | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 17 February 2025

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Lori Lee shares her traumatic childhood experiences, detailing her father's controlling behavior, her mother's addiction, and the chaotic family dynamics. Her father was emotionally distant and physically intimidating, while her mother, Penny, struggled with addiction and mental health issues. Lori was sent to live with her grandmother due to her mother's condition, only to be taken by her dad to live with him and her resentful new stepmother. It's a story of triangulation, adoption, divorce, addiction, anger, tantrums, hiding in plain sight, neglect, resentment, loneliness, fear, moving goal posts, erasing your identity, trust, support, intimidation and physical abuse. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Lori Lee,
0:07.8	and Lori Lee was raised by a neglectful abuser.
0:11.9	It's a story of fear, triangulation, tantrums, moving goalposts, loneliness, and hiding in plain sight.
0:44.1	Welcome to Ncissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:49.9	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Lori Lee.
0:50.8	How are you?
0:52.6	I'm doing great.
0:53.4	How are you, Brandon?
0:55.4	I am doing well.
1:12.7	Thank you for asking. And if you want to be a guest like Lori Lee is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Click on the guest form button at the top of the page. And there you can read all of our instructions. And please read them all. and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button
1:15.5	and please do send it in the format that we ask for. And we do have a content warning for this
1:21.8	episode as we do discuss witnessing physical abuse in this episode. And today you're going to hear
1:26.9	Lori Lee's story.
1:28.1	And Lori Lee was bounced around very early on in her life only to have her father take her away
1:33.7	from her grandmother. I know many of you will feel very validated by her story. So a big thank
1:40.3	you to Lori Lee for being here. I'm going to get out of my way, in your way.
1:44.9	Lori Lee, the floor is now yours.
1:49.0	Thanks, Brandon. Yeah, I'll describe the, I'll describe the behaviors of my family and what their impact had on me.
1:56.5	Because at 47, I realized what their actions were actually ran much deeper. It was about something that my family had kept hidden from me for my whole life.
2:06.6	My father, Clark, he was a controlling and physically intimidating man. He was proud to be six foot four, but he was really emotionally distant.
2:15.6	He worked in the oil patch patch and was away quite often.
2:20.4	My mother, her name was Penny.
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