Look At That Donkey
Pour Minds Podcast
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.8 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 23 January 2026
⏱️ 117 minutes
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Summary
This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole kick off the new year with a solo episode, just the two of them, catching up and getting honest as they step into 2026.
The girls talk lifestyle shifts, Dry January (or the attempt at it), fitness journeys, and the pressure that comes with trying to “reset” every new year. From debating cutting back on drinking to unpacking personal habits they’re actively working through, this episode is all about growth without pretending perfection exists.
Lex and Drea also dive into relationships and boundaries—why more women are choosing not to live with men, how cleanliness and personal space can make or break a relationship, and the difference between standards and control. They touch on beauty trends, filler culture, and the quiet insecurity that can come with chasing an ever-changing look online.
Things take a deeper turn as they discuss friendship fallouts, family betrayal, letting go of people who no longer serve you, and whether everything really deserves closure. The conversation wraps with candid talk about aging, sex, libido myths, flakiness, accountability, and why communication still matters, even when you’re tired.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. But I don't like the girls who are natural and they try to like weaponize it and be like, oh, well, I'm so glad I don't do that anymore. Because like I said, now I'm all for the natural girlies, but they be throwing a lot of shade too. They definitely be like, oh, well, I don't, I had to let that go. |
| 0:22.0 | I don't wear a weave. |
| 0:22.8 | I don't wear lashes. |
| 0:24.2 | I don't wear makeup. |
| 0:25.0 | Like, that's just too much. |
| 0:26.0 | I don't see how I did that. |
| 0:27.2 | Well, guess what? |
| 0:28.6 | Be shady. |
| 0:29.7 | You need it. What's up y'all? It's your girl Lex P. |
| 0:55.9 | And it's your girl, Drey, Nicole. |
| 0:57.8 | And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds. |
| 1:01.6 | We're a drunk mind speaks sober thought. |
| 1:03.9 | We ain't got no guests today. |
| 1:06.6 | We ain't got no guests today. |
| 1:09.6 | It is the first solo episode of 2026. |
| 1:14.5 | I know y'all been waiting. |
| 1:16.0 | They've been waiting. |
| 1:17.2 | They have been. |
| 1:18.3 | But, you know, we have made it here. |
| 1:21.5 | It's a new year. |
| 1:22.4 | Now we can really get to it. |
| 1:24.3 | Have you been sticking to your New Year's resolutions? |
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