What's up, you guys? Happy Sunday, and welcome back to your favorite podcast, at least favorite Sunday podcast brunch with Desby. I'm your host, Des. Also known as Desby. I hope you're having a fantastic start to your day.

Thank you so much for you guys who listened to last week's episode. I literally dropped.

If there was a ball that could be dropped, I dropped it because last week was my 100th episode.

I didn't do anything like one of the most one monumental episode and I just completely shit the bed. So thank you guys for tuning into that.

Advice from me was the last episode. Two episodes ago, we talked about stop gaslighting yourself.

Three episodes ago, we had, tell me a secret. And then other than that, we kind of talked, you know, beginning of the year. So it's crazy that we're already like five podcasts into the year.

Because it just, it goes so fast. So I'm not sure if you guys already noticed. I'm looking at it right now and I can tell a lot of you have, but you can rate brunch with Desby on Spotify now.

So if you go to Spotify, you pull up brunch with Desby, it gives you an option to hit however many stars.

I can understand that not every episode is for everyone. So if you don't want to give me a five, I get it.

Like if you want to be an actual raider, I totally get it. I don't have a lot of guests ever. So like again, I get it.

But if you did give me a five star, I would appreciate it. I don't even think it really does.

I don't think it does anything if you rate a podcast. To be honest, it just kind of maybe boost it on the chart. Maybe, maybe it says recommended under another podcast.

I don't really know. So, but anyways, I'm so excited to be sitting here today. I realized after I named the episode.

And I said, like, it's over.

I'm like, shit, people are like long distance marriage. It's over. It's like a people tabloid. It's a perfect example of kind of like that old sentence where it's like.

We ate, we ate grandma for dinner or something, you know, and it's like they forgot the comma. So instead it's like, we ate grandma. It's like we ate comma grandma.

So anyways, I was like, oh, fuck. Well, so why not you're definitely not done. But what is done is our long distance marriage, our LDM.

We are, we are not polygamists. We are monogamous. I think we'd be monogamous. So I remember just our episode of you, what probably a month ago when I said how why it was like in space.

And I said that we were bringing in another woman. And then I said that he was like with Elon Musk, just a bunch of other stories. But our polygamy scheme is over.

And never even began. Let me just make that very clear. But we are officially done. Why it is in my vagina, my, my fuck my home. He's in my home. This weekend, he is officially quit his job.

He is self-employed. He is, he's going for it. And I'm supporting it. And I'm, I'm saying go little rock star, you know, and yes, I know that that's not the actual lyric. But I'm just, you know, I'm like, go why it. I'm, go why it. I'm right here. I'm right here cheering for you. So he is on his way to just continuing in real estate, continuing on his journey to figure out what he, you know, what, what does he love?

And what does he want to do? And he's just such a fantastic dad and an amazing husband. And it's, it's just been so hard to be away from him. And honestly, just it was hard on our marriage for a minute there, you know.

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