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🗓️ 17 January 2024
⏱️ 83 minutes
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Healing from divorce is a long road, but it is possible. Laterras sits down with Destiny Payton and she opens up about her healing journey after a turbulent divorce, sharing her resilience through challenges like incarceration. Together, they explore past traumas and family history, revealing the profound impact on marriage choices. Discover Destiny's healing, her perspective on forgiveness, dealing with breakups and where she stands in her journey to love.
[00:00:00 - 00:03:39] - Opening segment
[00:03:40 - 00:09:01] - What happened to Destiny Payton?
[00:09:02 - 00:15:47] - How did Destiny surrender to the jail system?
[00:15:48 - 19:41] - Using dialogue to avoid conflict
[00:19:42 - 27:56] - Dealing with past traumas and EMDR Therapy
[00:27:57 - 29:44] - How do current experiences bring up old trauma?
[00:29:55 - 36:31] - Timeline of Destiny’s past relationship
[00:36:32 - 41:34] - Unaddressed trauma
[00:41:35 - 43:24] - How does your childhood affect your energy?
[00:43:25 - 45:00] - The impact of the death of Destiny’s older brother on her life
[00:45:01 - 52:51] - Destiny’s experience with reality TV
[00:52:52 - 59:17] - Handling betrayal
[00:59:18 - 01:06:35] - Is your ex allowed to date?
[01:06:36 - 01:21:32] - A message for Destiny’s ex
Key Quote:
“God didn’t take the storm away, but he gave me peace” - Destiny Payton.
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0:00.0 | I don't understand how in the world do people get married and they hate because that's what it has to come |
0:06.2 | hate somebody to the point that they will get their own son's mother locked up over something like that. |
0:13.0 | It was really a slap in the face, you know, for me, like, |
0:16.0 | you protected this person for so long, |
0:18.0 | you hadn't even spoke out about your abuse, |
0:21.0 | you haven't even, you know, talked about the real trauma that you got from that marriage. |
0:26.9 | It was a lot of aha moments that I needed just for myself and my growth and accepting things and coming to the realization of where I was and |
0:35.7 | actually being married to someone that now seeks pleasure in your pain. |
0:46.5 | I aim to make emotional healing a global norm. |
0:56.3 | Through cultivating candid discussions about love, my parents got married and divorced to each other three times or you can look at it as they kept trying In the end of my father's life that's what he told me I aspire to men marriages |
1:00.8 | I'm intentional about loving her. |
1:04.0 | Because now I understand that, you know, |
1:08.2 | I would be free and loving me, |
1:10.6 | then I could love her. |
1:11.5 | Reignite hope for singles seeking future relationships. |
1:15.4 | How can you glory in being single and want a companion at the same time? |
1:20.1 | How can you not? |
1:21.5 | You're only going to be as successful as a wife as you were at a single. |
1:25.3 | And inspire men to lead their homes in accordance with biblical principles. |
1:30.0 | When I made my bows, I told God that I was going to take care of this gift. This is my gift. |
1:39.1 | And I was obligated to see after him and him alone. |
1:43.0 | Join me on this journey where these heartfelt and vulnerable conversations |
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