Lock My Husband Out Of Our Savings Account?
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🗓️ 8 October 2025
⏱️ 8 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Brought to you by CHM, a biblically based alternative to health insurance. |
| 0:06.3 | Learn more at CHMinistries.org slash budget. |
| 0:09.3 | I have a question. |
| 0:10.9 | I would like to know if it's okay if I lock my husband out of my savings account. |
| 0:20.5 | Wow. Tell me more. Sounds pretty dramatic. Yeah, it is. We've been married for 45 years. |
| 0:29.0 | Probably 20 some years ago, we got into some credit card debt, a lot of credit card debt to the |
| 0:35.2 | point where we had to take out a second mortgage. |
| 0:38.5 | I also borrowed against my 401K, and it took probably 10 years to claw out of that debt. |
| 0:44.9 | And I mean, we were really good about budgeting, and now we have our home paid off, all our cars are paid off. |
| 0:51.9 | We had absolutely no debt until probably the last year. |
| 0:58.0 | I picked up a second job before to help, you know, get this debt out. |
| 1:02.0 | Well, I've since left my second job and we are just spending, I say we, it's not really we, it's him. It's just spending way more than what |
| 1:12.9 | we're bringing in. On the what? Oh, just, he has just, he's bought a boat, he's bought a truck |
| 1:20.6 | to pull the boat, he's bought road bikes, he's bought mountain bikes, he has gone through $40,000 in savings in the last year |
| 1:32.2 | buying these things. What is your all's net worth? Net worth. Our home is worth probably |
| 1:38.9 | $650,000. I have $650 in my 401k. I had $50,000 in savings, and now I have 650 in my 401k. |
| 1:45.0 | I had 50,000 in savings, and now I have, I guess there's about eight in there now. |
| 1:51.4 | You keep using the word I. |
| 1:53.1 | How much does he have in his 401K? |
| 1:55.9 | Nothing. |
| 1:57.1 | Okay. |
| 1:57.4 | So you have a net worth of a million and a half dollars, give or take. |
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