This is a show about individual experience and personal identity.

There may be times when folks use identifying words or phrases that don't feel right to you.

That's part of what we're exploring here.

Please listen with an open heart, and as always, I welcome your polite, engaged feedback,

and I encourage you to continue the conversation in your own life and with your own community.

Welcome to Query.

Hey Query Rose, Cammy here.

First of all, several of you, many, a few, a couple dozen have joined my new Patreon.

That is at patreon.com slash Hey Query Rose.

What the heck is a Patreon?

Well, look.

Add sales support this show.

You might not know this, but the freaking pandemic has been a piece of shit on Add Sales for

literally every podcast except for the daily.

So congrats Michael Bavaro and The New York Times for having huge listenership.

There's been a bit of a downturn in terms of out sales.

So Sierra, you know Sierra, she's produced her on this show.

She helped me set up a Patreon.

Why did she help me set it up?

Because I couldn't do it myself.

I am from the 90s, and I can barely do anything.

You should have seen me when I did a Zoom show and then just held up my Instagram live via

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