Hey everybody, welcome to your move where we help you make better decisions and live with fewer regrets.

I'm Andy Stanley and I'll be your guide.

Now, we have all heard about or watch people we know do terrible things and then we wondered,

how do they live with themselves?

The implication being if you did something like that, well, you wouldn't be able to live with yourself.

But the truth is, you could. You could do the

unthinkable and live with yourself. People do it all the time. But there is a way to ensure that

you never go there. And that's what we're talking about today, right here on your move.

So here's something we've all thought, and perhaps something at some point along the way you have said out loud, after someone was found out, you know, like every week, you know, somewhere in the news or whatever your news feed is, or whatever you look at, there's somebody who's found out. In other words, they had a secret. They had something going on in the background and now everybody knows. Or maybe it's someone in your personal life or in your family or somebody at work and they're found out. It's just, you know, suddenly it's been discovered that they've been living a double life. They had something going on. Nobody knew about and harboring a secret or maybe even consider it like a secret sin

and lying to the people that are closest to them lying to the people that depend on them

lying to their family maybe lying to their constituency lying to lying to the people at work

and and and now they're they've been discovered and you know they've been called out and they're

caught and when that happens and you get kind of the nitty gritty of the story and all the details, you've thought, or maybe you've even said to someone, how could they live with themselves?

I mean, how can you be this publicly and this privately?

How can you be this in this group, but this with this other group? I mean, I don't know how those folks, I don't know how he, I don't know how she live with themselves. How could they carry on for so long with that going on in the background? How could they carry on without melting down? You know, how did they keep up the charade? How, how did they live with themselves, right? Or how did they, you know, show up at church?

Or let me, you know, bring it into my industry.

How did they show up at church and preach and have that going on in the background?

Right?

I mean, there's been a few of those stories.

Because when the truth comes out, you know, when the story breaks and a family's devastated

and reputation is ruined and careers destroyed, we think, how do, how, you know, how could

they live with themselves?

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