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Living With Men with Manon Garcia

Overthink

Ellie Anderson, Ph.D. and David Peña-Guzmán, Ph.D.

Philosophy, Society & Culture, Education

4.7549 Ratings

🗓️ 30 December 2025

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Content warning: this episode extensively discusses rape, sexual violence, and incest.

In episode 154 of Overthink, Ellie and David talk to philosopher Manon Garcia about her book, Living with Men: Reflections on the Pelicot Trial. They discuss the rape case of Gisèle Pelicot and how the subsequent trial of her husband and fifty additional men sheds light on the normalization and acceptance of sexual violence in what is known as 'rape culture.' In what ways is the current understanding of consent as ‘permission giving’ harmful? How is heterosexual love often tied to objectification? Why does the ‘boys will be boys’ mentality make it difficult for us to rely on the criminal justice system? And how do we live with men knowing that cases such as these are incredibly common? In the Substack bonus segment, your hosts discuss the politics of language and the risk of eroticization in recounting stories of sexual violence, and they think through where we should go from here in terms of sexual and romantic attachments to men.


Works Discussed:

Manon Garcia, Living with Men: Reflections on the Pelicot Trial

Simone de Beauvoir and Gisèle Halimi, Djamila Boupacha


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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to Overthink.

0:21.6

The podcast where two philosophers put ideas in dialogue with everyday life.

0:26.4

I'm Ellie Anderson.

0:28.0

And I'm David Peña-Gusman.

0:29.8

I want to give a content warning for this episode.

0:32.3

We are going to be talking at length about rape, sexual violence, and incest, including some graphic descriptions.

0:39.7

The topic of today's episode is what's known as the pelico trial because the feminist philosopher

0:46.2

Manon Garcia has recently written a book on this called Living with Men, Reflections on the Pelico

0:52.1

Trial. So we will be talking with Manon in just a little bit

0:55.1

about the philosophical implications of this particular case. I know many of our listeners are probably

1:00.6

already familiar with this case, as it was pretty high profile earlier in 2025. However,

1:06.7

whether or not you know a bit about it already, David, you're going to tell us some facts about this so we can have a necessary background

1:14.6

before talking about the philosophical dimensions.

1:18.6

Yeah, and the details are really important not only for us to get a sense of what happened in the

1:22.4

trial and the case, but also because Manon-Garcia's book goes into great detail also about some of these

1:28.2

details and interprets them through a philosophical and feminist lens. And so the first thing to

1:34.2

note about the Pelico affair, as it's sometimes called in France, is that it has become one of

1:39.8

the most widely publicized and covered trials in French media in recent decades. It has been all over

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the media, has been all over the news, and it has been followed by French people and others

1:52.6

also internationally with great interest because it has become this litmus test for thinking

1:58.2

about how the law responds to extreme forms of sexual violence.

2:02.4

Now, the case is also unique in a couple of ways. First and foremost, because the woman at the

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