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Julie, welcome to the program.

Hi Dr. Laura upper-time caller, long-time listener.

I am 56, I've been married 30 years and my husband was unfaithful,

back in like 2015.

We were separated for about a year, year and a half and decided to get back together

and after getting.

I'm sorry you can't hear me. Why did you decide to get back together?

Had there been significant changes on both of your parts?

We had gone to counseling. I had felt there was significant changes.

And described to me the changes in you and him that led you to believe this would work.

I felt that a lot of people were...

Can we not talk about feelings, madam?

Feelings are not facts. I can either watch somebody pet a dog or I can assume that the dog

was sitting there and he might have been petted. One's a fact, one's a conjecture.

So I need to know concretely what did you change, what did he change that made you both think

let's get back together?

So his changes, he was much more communicative. He was able to tell me what he liked and didn't like.

He was able to tell me what he needed and didn't need.

And he was attentive and kind.

And where were you that you saw these changes? Were you dating? Were you shacking up?

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