Live Proxy: Ben Doesn't Know His Neighbors (March 31, 1pm ET)
Proxy with Yowei Shaw
Yowei Shaw
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🗓️ 27 March 2026
⏱️ 2 minutes
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Summary
Ben's neighbors are right there. So... why is it so hard to actually know them?
We're tackling that question live—by finding him a proxy who's figured out how to turn a block of strangers into something more... neighbors.
Come watch us try something a little experimental.
Tuesday, March 31st at 1pm EST (on Zoom)
Patreon members will get the link that morning. If you're not one yet, you can join us here.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, everyone, it's Yo-A. |
| 0:01.7 | dropping in your feed to make sure you know that we are having our first ever live proxy |
| 0:06.6 | conversation on March 31st at 1 p.m. Eastern time on Zoom. |
| 0:11.7 | So last membership, Fall Drive, we held a raffle as a way to motivate you all to sign up. |
| 0:18.8 | And a lucky Patreon member won the opportunity, the honor of |
| 0:25.0 | choosing an upcoming episode topic. A listener named Ben from Los Angeles One. So I chatted with Ben |
| 0:31.1 | and was immediately taken with one of his conundrums. Something I think a lot of us deal with. I know I do. The problem of |
| 0:39.6 | not knowing your neighbors and not knowing how to change that. What does it like to be the first |
| 0:44.8 | one to get out and say like, hey, actually, there's no bears here and it's pretty nice. Wow, |
| 0:50.3 | try these berries. Who knew? And somebody else comes out of the cave and is like, I can make |
| 0:54.5 | jam out of those berries. And they're like, whoa, I thought I had to pay $19 plus shipping, plus |
| 1:00.2 | handling, plus a membership fee, plus a licensing fee in order to get jam. Ben is questions like, |
| 1:05.3 | what are the actual mechanics of building community? How do you approach someone without making it weird? How do you get other |
| 1:12.5 | people excited to chip in so you don't burn out? On Tuesday, I'll be surprising Ben with a proxy |
| 1:18.3 | who successfully brought neighborliness back to their block. Their story involves a mysterious |
| 1:24.2 | manila envelope, slipped under a door, a cat following out from an apartment, |
| 1:29.2 | and the rats are of New York City. This lunch Zoom hang is for paying Patreon members as a thank |
| 1:35.1 | you for supporting the show and getting us to a year two, which is going to be launching very |
| 1:41.2 | soon in April. You'll get the Zoom link in your inbox on Tuesday morning, |
| 1:45.4 | March 31st. And if you're not a member yet and you want to join us, just go to patreon.com |
| 1:50.8 | slash proxy podcast to sign up. Hope to see your faces there. |
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