LIVE, LAUGH, FIND TRUE LOVE: INTERVIEW WITH AUTHOR SARAH INTELLIGATOR (FALL FAMILY & HONORING HEROES THEME)

1001 Heroes, Legends, Histories & Mysteries Podcast

Jon Hagadorn

Society & Culture, History

4.4 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 22 October 2025

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

Our interview with Los Angeles relationship author and divorce attorney covers every angle of getting into new relationship with a strong chance they will last if you follow her gre3at advice. The holidays are a good time for strengthening our friendships and family.

Sarah's Book I highly recommend:

LIVE, LAUGH, FIND TRUE LOVE: A Step by Step Guide to Finding A Meaningful Relationship

Sarah A.Intelligator

Want to know the secret to finding a meaningful and long-lasting relationship? Who doesn't!

Whether you are divorced or looking to remarry, you have been in-and-out of failed relationships, you are uncertain about an existing relationship or you are simply prepared to ditch the single life . . .Whatever your race, gender, religion or sexual identity or orientation—this book is for you.

Most relationship guides are written by therapists who base their advice on success stories. This is not that book. This is not your average relationship book. This book emerged from failure and offers a unique and fresh perspective. (Think, "The Rime of the Ancient Mariner," except the albatross is Zsa Zsa Gabor).

Written by a divorce attorney with more than twenty years' experience, this book works backwards, scrutinizing and dissecting the reasons relationships go wrong, to help you find the right relationship.

In working with thousands of divorcing couples, author Sarah Intelligator, has distilled several unmistakable patterns among failed relationships. She has reduced these patterns into six categories, "F-Words": Fundamental Values, Fear, Foundation, Fixing, Fairy Tale, and Family. This book will teach you to recognize and avoid these predictable patterns in your own search for a life partner, so that you may find a fulfilling and enduring relationship.

Throughout the course of this book, you will be guided on an introspective journey of deep self-reflection. You will come out the other side not only with a more solid understanding of what you want in a relationship, but how to go about finding a partner best suited for you, because you deserve to love and be loved in a healthy way.

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0:00.0	Welcome back, everyone, to 1001 Heroes, Legends, Histories, and Mysteries podcast.
0:05.7	This is your host, John Higdorn.
0:08.5	Today, the first of our fall family interviews.
0:12.7	We have a very special guest with us today.
0:15.6	Her name is Sarah Intelligator.
0:18.3	She's actually a divorce attorney from Los Angeles, been in the business for many,
0:22.7	many years, and she really prefers in her business to see couples go away happy and still married
0:29.8	whenever possible. And she gives a lot of advice in this book that she's just written called
0:35.5	Live, Laugh, Find True Love, a step-by-step guide to finding
0:40.9	a meaningful relationship by Sarah A. Intelligator. She gives a lot of advice to people just getting
0:47.3	into a relationship to make sure that the one they're getting into is the right one and not the
0:53.5	wrong one. And she's had a lot of experience in seeing
0:56.6	the wrong ones and wants to help set a lot of people on the right path. Sarah, it's great to have you
1:02.8	with us at 1001 Heroes. Thanks for joining us. Well, hey, John, thanks for having me on 1001 Heroes,
1:10.4	Legends, Histories, and Mysteries.
1:12.4	Sarah, it's great to have you with us. Please introduce yourself and tell us a little bit about your
1:16.4	background, and let's get acquainted. Yeah, so I am a family law attorney in Los Angeles.
1:23.0	I have been practicing for close to 20 years. And yeah, as you said, I've written a book, Live, Laugh, Find True Love, where I try to
1:33.4	essentially reverse engineer where relationships go wrong and what I see on a daily basis
1:40.3	to try to teach people the pitfalls to avoid and where to go right in their relationship
1:46.3	so that they hopefully never need me a day in their lives. And as I end the book, I say this
1:51.7	book is bad for business. And I'm perfectly okay with little self-sabotage for the greater good.
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