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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Little Happier: We Really Don’t Have That Kind of Time.

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project

Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.713K Ratings

🗓️ 15 June 2020

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

In this era of the coronavirus, I find myself thinking often about a passage from Anne Lamott’s book “Bird By Bird”—and reminding myself, “I really don’t have that kind of time.” Get in touch: @gretchenrubin; @elizabethcraft; [email protected] Get in touch on Instagram: @GretchenRubin & @LizCraft Get the podcast show notes by email every week here: http://gretchenrubin.com/#newsletter Order a copy of Gretchen’s new book OUTER ORDER, INNER CALM here: http://outerorderinnercalmbook.com Leave a voicemail message on: 774-277-9336 For information about advertisers and promo codes, go to happiercast.com/sponsors. Happier with Gretchen Rubin is part of ‘The Onward Project,’ a family of podcasts brought together by Gretchen Rubin—all about how to make your life better. Check out the other Onward Project podcasts—Do The Thing, Side Hustle School, Happier in Hollywood and Everything Happens with Kate Bowler. If you liked this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and tell your friends! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Sometimes running a business can feel like cycling uphill with square wheels.

0:07.0

But zero online accounting software can help predict the future cash flow of your business.

0:15.0

So you can stay one step ahead. Soon it'll feel more like free-wearing downhill.

0:21.0

On a tandem! What, mate? With a messer on the back.

0:25.0

Oh, that's nice. Search zero with an axe because healthy business is beautiful business.

0:30.0

I'm Gretchen Rubin and this is a little happier.

0:33.0

I've been doing research for a book I want to write about the body and the senses and getting to the mind through the body.

0:40.0

As part of that work, I've been thinking a lot about time. How we experience time, how time changes things.

0:48.0

And now the terrible circumstances surrounding COVID-19 have made me think a lot about time in a new way.

0:55.0

And as part of this reflection, I find myself going back to reread and reread one of my favorite passages from a book I love.

1:02.0

Anlamats, bird by bird. Some instructions on writing and life. She writes.

1:10.0

But about a month before my friend Pammy died, she said something that may have permanently changed me.

1:16.0

We had gone shopping for a dress for me to wear that night to a nightclub with the man I was seeing at the time.

1:22.0

Pammy was in a wheelchair wearing her queen mum wig, the easy writer look in her eyes.

1:28.0

I tried on 11 or mini dress, which is not my usual style. I tend to wear big baggy clothes.

1:34.0

People used to tell me I dress like John Goodman.

1:37.0

Anyway, the dress fit perfectly and I came out to model it for her. I stood there feeling very shy and self-conscious and pleased.

1:45.0

Then I said, do you think it makes my hips look too big? And she said to me slowly, Annie, I really don't think you have that kind of time.

1:57.0

No, I don't think we have that kind of time either.

2:01.0

I'm Gretchen Rubin and I hope this makes your week a little happier.

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