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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Little Happier: The More We Talk to Someone, the More We Have to Say.

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project

Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.713K Ratings

🗓️ 10 August 2020

⏱️ 3 minutes

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Summary

In Karl Ove Knausgaard’s autobiographical novel My Struggle: Book Six, he reflects on the counter-intuitive truth that the more we talk to people, the more we have to say to them. Get in touch: @gretchenrubin; [email protected] Get in touch on Instagram: @GretchenRubin Get the podcast show notes by email every week here: http://gretchenrubin.com/#newsletter Order a copy of Gretchen’s new book OUTER ORDER, INNER CALM here: http://outerorderinnercalmbook.com Leave a voicemail message on: 774-277-9336 For information about advertisers and promo codes, go to happiercast.com/sponsors. Happier with Gretchen Rubin is part of ‘The Onward Project,’ a family of podcasts brought together by Gretchen Rubin—all about how to make your life better. Check out the other Onward Project podcasts—Do The Thing, Side Hustle School, Happier in Hollywood and Everything Happens with Kate Bowler. If you liked this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and tell your friends! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

I'm Gretchen Rubin and this is a little happier.

0:02.7

Last week, I read a passage from Carl Uvacnausgard about a bliger rebellion, and this week I want

0:09.2

to mention another passage in another of his works.

0:12.4

And I want to apologize again to anyone who can hear my mispronunciation, I am sure, of

0:17.4

his name.

0:18.9

On a happier podcast, each week, Elizabeth and I propose a try this at home suggestion,

0:23.7

some concrete step that we can take, starting today, to be happier, healthier, more productive

0:28.8

or more creative.

0:30.8

Way back in episode two, we suggested a try this at home that really struck a chord with

0:36.2

listeners.

0:37.5

It was an idea suggested by our mother.

0:40.5

She'd made the observation that when you're in touch with a person all the time, you have

0:43.9

a lot to say to each other, but when you see a person rarely, you have a hard time coming

0:48.6

up with things to say.

0:50.5

So she suggested that we email each other regularly, with updates about small details

0:55.1

of our lives.

0:56.4

We instantly realized that this was a great idea, and now every several days we send each

1:00.9

other an email titled update, and we write about the most minor daily happenings in our

1:06.0

lives.

1:07.0

The motto of update is, it's okay to be boring.

1:10.7

It is astonishing how much closer I feel to my mother, my father, and my sister, now that

1:15.6

we're exchanging these very minor but regular updates.

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