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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Little Happier - The Danger of Finish Lines, According to Kurt Vonnegut

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project

Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.713K Ratings

🗓️ 21 March 2022

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

Setting a finish line can help people reach a goal, but it can actually can undermine the process of forming a habit. In a letter to his son, renowned author Kurt Vonnegut explains why finish lines can be risky for writers. Get in touch: @gretchenrubin; @elizabethcraft; [email protected] Get in touch on Instagram: @GretchenRubin & @LizCraft Get the podcast show notes by email every week here: http://gretchenrubin.com/#newsletter Leave a voicemail message on: 774-277-9336 For information about advertisers and promo codes, go to happiercast.com/sponsors Want to be happier in 2022? Order Gretchen Rubin’s book The Happiness Project to see how she approached the question, “How can I be happier?” and start a Happiness Project of your own. Happier with Gretchen Rubin is part of ‘The Onward Project,’ a family of podcasts brought together by Gretchen Rubin—all about how to make your life better. Check out the other Onward Project podcasts—Do The Thing, Side Hustle School, Happier in Hollywood and Everything Happens with Kate Bowler. If you liked this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and tell your friends! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

I'm Christian Rubin and this is a little happier.

0:04.3

In my study of how to make or break habits when I was writing my book better than before,

0:09.7

one thing that took me a long time to realize was the danger of finish lines.

0:17.5

Setting a finish line does indeed help people aim toward and reach a goal, but although

0:23.4

it's widely assumed to help with habit formation, finish lines can actually undermine habits.

0:31.4

A finish line marks a stopping point.

0:34.6

And once we stop, we must start over.

0:38.2

And starting over is harder than starting.

0:42.5

And the more dramatic the goal, the more decisive the end and the more effort required

0:47.9

to start over.

0:49.8

So by providing a specific goal, a temporary motivation, and requiring a new start once

0:55.1

reached, hitting a finish line may interfere with habit formation.

1:00.8

And once we've decided we've achieved a success, we tend to stop moving forward.

1:06.6

Even an intermediate finish line can interfere with good habits.

1:10.8

In a letter to his son Mark, renowned novelist Kurt Vonnegut advised,

1:15.8

I have seen a lot of writers stop writing or at least slow down after getting an advance.

1:22.3

They have a feeling of completion after making a deal.

1:26.3

That's bad news creatively.

1:28.5

I advise you to carry on without an advance, without that false feeling of completion.

1:35.7

Have you ever found that hitting a finish line meant that you stopped doing something,

1:40.1

even though you've been doing it successfully up to that point?

1:43.3

That you thought you'd been forging a habit, but it turned out not to be?

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