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🗓️ 21 March 2022
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0:00.0 | I'm Christian Rubin and this is a little happier. |
0:04.3 | In my study of how to make or break habits when I was writing my book better than before, |
0:09.7 | one thing that took me a long time to realize was the danger of finish lines. |
0:17.5 | Setting a finish line does indeed help people aim toward and reach a goal, but although |
0:23.4 | it's widely assumed to help with habit formation, finish lines can actually undermine habits. |
0:31.4 | A finish line marks a stopping point. |
0:34.6 | And once we stop, we must start over. |
0:38.2 | And starting over is harder than starting. |
0:42.5 | And the more dramatic the goal, the more decisive the end and the more effort required |
0:47.9 | to start over. |
0:49.8 | So by providing a specific goal, a temporary motivation, and requiring a new start once |
0:55.1 | reached, hitting a finish line may interfere with habit formation. |
1:00.8 | And once we've decided we've achieved a success, we tend to stop moving forward. |
1:06.6 | Even an intermediate finish line can interfere with good habits. |
1:10.8 | In a letter to his son Mark, renowned novelist Kurt Vonnegut advised, |
1:15.8 | I have seen a lot of writers stop writing or at least slow down after getting an advance. |
1:22.3 | They have a feeling of completion after making a deal. |
1:26.3 | That's bad news creatively. |
1:28.5 | I advise you to carry on without an advance, without that false feeling of completion. |
1:35.7 | Have you ever found that hitting a finish line meant that you stopped doing something, |
1:40.1 | even though you've been doing it successfully up to that point? |
1:43.3 | That you thought you'd been forging a habit, but it turned out not to be? |
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