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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Little Happier: Re-Framing the Situation Can Mean that Someone Unexpected Wins a Prize

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project

Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.713K Ratings

🗓️ 7 June 2021

⏱️ 4 minutes

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Summary

Rebecca Caudill’s 1962 picture book “The Best-Loved Doll” tells the story of a little girl and her shabby, beloved doll, and the medal her doll won, when the truth was framed in a new way. Get in touch: @gretchenrubin; [email protected] Get in touch on Instagram: @GretchenRubin Get the podcast show notes by email every week here: http://gretchenrubin.com/#newsletter Order a copy of Gretchen’s new book OUTER ORDER, INNER CALM here: http://outerorderinnercalmbook.com Leave a voicemail message on: 774-277-9336 For information about advertisers and promo codes, go to happiercast.com/sponsors. Happier with Gretchen Rubin is part of ‘The Onward Project,’ a family of podcasts brought together by Gretchen Rubin—all about how to make your life better. Check out the other Onward Project podcasts—Do The Thing, Side Hustle School, Happier in Hollywood and Everything Happens with Kate Bowler. If you liked this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and tell your friends! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:05.9

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0:11.1

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like huddles for quick check-ins or Slack Connect, which helps you connect with partners

0:20.9

inside and outside of your company. Slack, where the future works. Get started at

0:26.9

Slack.com slash DHQ. I'm Gretchen Rubin and this is a little happier. So often, I search

0:34.8

for the right words to say. And as I often mention, I love examples of when someone

0:39.7

knows just the right thing to say, the right way to respond. I love children's books

0:45.1

and picture books, and sometimes I find examples of the right words to say in a book

0:49.6

that I read decades ago. For instance, I love the story told in the 1962 picture book,

0:56.3

The Best Love Doll by Rebecca Coddle. In the story, the little girl Betsy gets an invitation

1:02.8

to a friend's party. The invitation explains that each guest should bring a doll and

1:07.7

prizes will be given for the oldest doll, the best dressed doll, the doll who can do the

1:12.7

most things. Betsy debates about which of her poor dolls to bring. The wooden doll Melissa

1:19.4

is Betsy's oldest doll. Melissa is a hundred years old and belonged to Betsy's great-great-grandmother.

1:26.2

Melinda is the best dressed doll with a trunk full of beautiful clothes. Mary Jane is the

1:32.1

doll who can do the most things. When Betsy turns a key in Mary Jane's back, her feet

1:36.7

work the trettle of a sewing machine and her sewing machine soles real stitches.

1:42.1

The last doll is Jennifer. Jennifer is worn and be dragiled. Her face is patched with adhesive

1:47.7

tape. She has faded, rumpled clothes and tangled hair, but she has a beautiful smile, and

1:53.3

she's the doll that's most precious. In the end, Betsy brings Jennifer. Betsy gets to

2:00.4

the party and all the guest play games then they gather for the contest. On the table sit

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