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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Little Happier: An Important Lesson from a Famous Illusionist and a Fake Gorilla

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Lemonada Media

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement

4.713.2K Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2023

⏱️ 3 minutes

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Summary

The famous “Monkey Business Illusion” video and the memoir of magician Darren Brown point to a similar conclusion: When we pay too much attention to something small, we may miss something big. Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com Follow on social media: @GretchenRubin on YouTube @GretchenRubin on TikTok @GretchenRubin on Instagram Get the podcast show notes by email every week: happiercast.com/shownotes Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available - order here. Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.  Happier with Gretchen Rubin is part of ‘The Onward Project,’ a family of podcasts brought together by Gretchen Rubin—all about how to make your life better. Check out the other Onward Project podcasts— Side Hustle School, Happier in Hollywood and Everything Happens with Kate Bowler. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I'm Gretchen Rubin and this is a little happier.

0:04.0

Darren Brown is a famous illusionist and mentalist who performs on stage and on screen.

0:10.7

He wrote an absolutely fascinating book called Tricks of the Mind in which he writes about

0:16.0

his work.

0:17.5

I read this book several years ago and one observation he made particularly sticks in my mind.

0:24.6

He explains that when he's doing a sleight of hand trick, he directs the attention of the

0:29.1

audience where he wants it to go and away from the trick he's doing.

0:33.6

He stays relaxed and casual and with his story, voice, pacing and actions takes the audience

0:40.2

where he wants them to go.

0:43.6

To my surprise, Darren Brown noted that his tricks worked best with the most engaged audience

0:50.4

members, the ones who were hanging on his every word and scrutinizing every move he made.

0:58.0

He explained why.

1:00.6

It is generally the most disinterested spectator who is hardest to fool.

1:06.1

When I performed this kind of magic for groups of parties, it was the peripheral punters

1:10.8

stood on the sidelines with folded arms, half in conversation with each other who were

1:15.6

the danger.

1:17.1

If they were not paying attention, I could not bring them into the game.

1:21.8

They watched less, but they saw more.

1:26.1

I found this observation astonishing.

1:29.2

These audience members watched less, they paid less attention and for that reason, they

1:34.1

saw more.

1:36.6

Brown's comment reminded me of what's sometimes called the monkey business solution, which

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