Little: Finding a Meaning, Such as Sacrifice, Can Transform Suffering
Happier with Gretchen Rubin
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🗓️ 19 November 2018
⏱️ 1 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | I'm Gretchen Rubin and this is a little happier. |
| 0:04.3 | Last week I talked about my deep admiration for the brilliant memoir Man Search for Meaning |
| 0:09.0 | by Victor Frankl. |
| 0:10.9 | In this masterpiece, Frankl relates to story from his psychiatric practice, an elderly man |
| 0:16.2 | came to him, a man who was still distraught with grief over the death of his wife two years |
| 0:21.2 | before. |
| 0:22.8 | Frankl asked, What would have happened if you had died first and your wife would have had |
| 0:28.4 | to survive you? |
| 0:30.2 | The man answered, Oh, for her this would have been terrible, how she would have suffered. |
| 0:36.3 | Frankl responded, You see, such a suffering has been spared to her. |
| 0:41.7 | And it was you who have spared her this suffering. |
| 0:44.8 | To be sure, at the price that now you have to survive and mourn her. |
| 0:50.0 | The man left the office comforted. |
| 0:53.0 | Frankl observes, In some way, suffering ceases to be suffering. |
| 0:57.5 | At the moment it finds a meaning, such as the meaning of a sacrifice. |
| 1:03.1 | It's a profound observation. |
| 1:05.7 | I'm Gretchen Rubin and I hope this makes your week a little happier. |
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