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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Little: A Happiness Lesson from Judd Apatow

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Lemonada Media

Self-improvement, Education, Health & Fitness

4.713.2K Ratings

🗓️ 22 May 2017

⏱️ 2 minutes

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We have to be very careful not to assume that we can predict how other people respond to our actions—especially to big, dramatic gestures. Get in touch: @gretchenrubin; podcast@gretchenrubin.com; 774-277-9336.  To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I'm Brettian Rubin and this is a little happier. Now this is not a happy story, but ever since I

0:07.3

read it, I have not been able to get it out of my head and I think that it does illustrate a very

0:12.4

important point about living a happy life. And this is a story that I read in Judd Apatow's book,

0:19.2

Sick in the Head, Conversations about Life and Comedy, which is a book that's all of his

0:24.2

interviews with famous comedians, which he started doing when he was very, very young. So it's

0:28.2

dozens of comedians talking to Judd Apatow. And in the interview with the legendary James L. Brooks,

0:35.1

Judd Apatow is saying how it was very tough for him when his parents split up in 1984 when he was

0:40.1

13 years old. His mother moved out, which was unusual and that made it more difficult. And Judd

0:46.8

Apatow says about his mother, she had a bit of a mental break after the divorce. She claimed that

0:52.3

she thought she was going to leave and come right back. And my dad immediately moved his girlfriend in.

0:57.8

Right before she died, she told me, I always thought I was going to come right back.

1:03.6

I always thought it was going to be a couple of weeks. And I think it's a good reminder that we have

1:09.7

to be very careful not to assume that we can predict how other people react, especially to big

1:17.6

dramatic gestures. We may have to deal with consequences that we didn't predict.

1:23.6

In the show notes, I'll put a link to the book, Sicken the Head, in case you want to check it out

1:28.9

yourself. I'm Brett Shun Rubin and I hope this makes your week a little happier.

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