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I'm Andrea Gunning, host of the podcast Betrayal.

Police Lieutenant Joel Kern used his badge to fool everyone.

Most of all, his wife, Caroline.

He texted, I've ruined our lives.

You're going to want to divorce me.

How far would he go to cover up what he'd done?

The fact that you lied is absolutely horrific. And quite frankly, I question how many other

women are out there that may bring forward allegations in the future.

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This week on Dear Chelsea with me, Chelsea Handler, Jay Shetty joins us.

The people who need the most love often ask for it in the most unloving ways.

So when I see someone's behavior, the first thing I try and think of

is how is that a plea for love? Whatever behavior you see from someone, it's them asking for love

in some way. And I think we see it in children the most where when a child's throwing a tantrum,

they're simply asking for presence, love and connection.

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Hi, I'm Radhdi DiVluka, and I am the host of a really good cry podcast. And I had the opportunity

to talk to Davy Brown with women, any kind of thing where there might be this underlying edge of self-sacrifice as martyrdom.

If you're never filling, you're telling yourself a story and you're actually avoiding what you should be doing.

You've got to get in.

You've got to get your hands dirty.

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