Everyone's trying to find love.

Everyone wants to date.

Everyone's trying to be outside.

And I understand.

So in the spirit of being outside, this episode is intentionally created for those who insist upon dating men.

So I want you to listen to this before going on that date.

It is highly imperative that you pay attention to what I'm telling you.

Not because I know you better than you know yourself,

but because there are things that you really need to watch out for.

There are things you need to be vigilant about because during a time in the world where

women are becoming more and more desperate to date. Men are adapting. Men are catching on. So as we increase our standards and raise our

demands of men, men are paying attention. And instead of for them to apply what we are saying and rise up to meet us,

they are adapting to resist what we are saying. So that resistance often looks like negging,

which if you've been listening to this podcast for a while, you have heard me discuss negging so many times.

But if you are new, negging is basically a thing that people, especially men do,

where they deliberately want to chip away your self-esteem, but in a rather subtle way.

Oftentimes they do it through a compliment.

Something as benign as you playing them a song and they listen and they're like,

you have a great voice but I don't think guitar is for you.

I don't think you should play guitar.

I think you should focus on singing.

So even though they've complimented your voice, there is still a butt.

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