Lionel Shriver's Most Problematic Novel Yet
The Unspeakeasy With Meghan Daum
Meghan Daum
4.7 • 855 Ratings
🗓️ 23 March 2026
⏱️ 69 minutes
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Summary
Bestselling novelist and commentator Lionel Shriver returns to the podcast to dicuss what might be her most controversial book yet. A Better Life takes on immigration through the story of a progressive Brooklyn woman who opens her home to a migrant. In this interview, she and Meghan discuss the book's themes and central characters, including the deliciously complicated Nico, a basement-dwelling fan of manospheric podcasts, and the role of the family's sprawling, Queen Anne-style house, which is almost a character in itself.
They also talk about demography, population decline, and the cultural shift from seeing children as the default to seeing them as an elective. Lionel was a contributor to Meghan's 2015 book Selfish, Shallow and Self-Absorbed: Sixteen Writers On the Decision Not To Have Kids, and they revisit their respective choices in that regard, what people really mean when they talk about happiness and fulfillment, and why sacrifice may be more central to a meaningful life than our culture likes to admit.
Guest Bio:
A prolific journalist with a fortnightly column in Britain's The Spectator, Lionel Shriver has written widely for the New York Times, the London Times, the Financial Times, Harper's Magazine, and many other publications. She has written 16 novels, including Mania, Should We Stay or Should We Go, The Mandibles, and We Need to Talk About Kevin, and her work has been translated into 35 languages. Her latest novel is A Better Life.
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| 0:00.0 | This book, it has been controversial. |
| 0:03.5 | It has divided people right down the middle and along predictable political lines. |
| 0:10.0 | Because in addition to telling what I think is a cracking good story, |
| 0:14.3 | it also has a lot of discussion of the issue of immigration, |
| 0:18.3 | which I'm of the view that there are two sides too. |
| 0:22.1 | And that's not the progressive perspective. |
| 0:25.7 | The progressive perspective is that there is only one side. |
| 0:29.3 | And that is the good side. |
| 0:34.6 | Hi, it's Megan. Welcome to the podcast. |
| 0:41.6 | This is an interview with novelist and commentator Lionel Shriver. |
| 0:46.0 | She's been on the podcast many times. |
| 0:48.0 | We are talking about her new novel, A Better Life, which has to do with immigration. |
| 0:53.9 | She is on topic, as always. |
| 0:56.2 | A quick note about this episode when we were recording about 15 minutes in, I realized |
| 1:02.6 | that we were actually live streaming. |
| 1:05.0 | We were on YouTube, and God knows where else. |
| 1:08.3 | So this is what happens when you are your own audio engineer, among other things. |
| 1:14.7 | So anyway, a little moment of surprise in that conversation, |
| 1:17.8 | but otherwise, this is another great interview with Lionel Shriver. |
| 1:21.2 | So enjoy. |
| 1:40.6 | Welcome to the Unspeak Easy podcast, the podcast, formerly known as the unspeakable, for conversations that are surprising and thought-provoking without being rage-baity. |
| 1:47.0 | Our motto for this year, less culture wars, more culture. I am your host, Megan Down. I am delighted, as always, to welcome back novelist and commentator Lionel Shriver. |
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