This program is paid for by people like you,

the partners of Joyce Meyer Ministries.

You say, well, I've tried and I just can't.

No.

No, here's the thing.

You may be mixed up about what forgiveness is.

Forgiveness is not a feeling.

I'm Joyce Meyer, and I believe that God can heal you everywhere you hurt.

You are in charge of your life now.

You oversee your life.

And you can have a good life if you want to.

And I hope And you can have a good life if you want to.

And I hope I'm shaking some things loose in some of you that, you know, you've just,

man, I don't want you to just settle in and say, well, this is, you know, just my cross to bear.

The cross that we're to bear is to live an unselfish life.

Jesus said, if anybody wants to follow me,

let him take up his cross and follow me.

And the amplified Bible says,

forget yourself, lose sight of yourself in all your own interests,

and follow me.

If I'm on the throne of my life, then I'm going to be saying no to God a lot.

We don't have enough messages on dying to self.

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