Life Is Emotionally Abusive | No Shame In Needing Help
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🗓️ 16 June 2023
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
One day everything is easy. The next, everything that can go wrong, does. One minute, everyone tells you you’re great. The next, they’ve all ganged up against you. Life is too short…and interminably long. Things move insanely fast…and also take forever.
Look at Marcus Aurelius’ life. He loses his father…and is then adopted by two powerful stepfathers. He’s suddenly thrust into power…then forced to wait 19 years to wield it. He’s blessed by enormous wealth…and haunted by tragedy after tragedy. Even his job is emotionally manipulative and impossible–at one point Marcus Aurelius describes being emperor as a kind of deranged world where one “earns a bad reputation by good deeds.”
When the Stoics talked about the need for an even keel, this was why.
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And in today's Daily Stoic excerpt reading, Ryan discusses why the Stoics encourage us to reach out for help when we need it.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic podcast early and add free on Amazon |
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| 0:08.2 | Welcome to the Daily Stoic podcast. On Friday, we do double-duty, not just reading our |
| 0:16.3 | daily meditation, but also reading a passage from the Daily Stoic. My book, 366 Meditations |
| 0:23.0 | on Wisdom, Perseverance in the Art of Living, which I wrote with my wonderful collaborator, |
| 0:28.7 | and a literary agent, Stephen Hanselman. So today, we'll give you a quick meditation |
| 0:33.9 | from the Stoics with some analysis from me and then we'll send you out into the world to |
| 0:39.1 | turn these words into works. |
| 0:42.2 | Life is emotionally abusive. One day, everything's easy and the next, everything that can go |
| 0:57.8 | wrong does. One minute, everyone tells you that you're great. The next, they've all |
| 1:02.0 | gained up against you. Life is too short. It's also in term, in a bit long. Things move |
| 1:07.3 | insanely fast. They also take forever. Look at Marcus Realis' life. He loses his father |
| 1:13.6 | and then he's adopted by two powerful stepfathers. He's suddenly thrust into power, then forced |
| 1:18.6 | to wait years to wield it. He's blessed by enormous wealth and then haunted by tragedy |
| 1:23.4 | after tragedy. Even his job is emotionally manipulative and impossible. At one point, Marcus |
| 1:30.2 | describes being emperor as a kind of deranged world where one earns a bad reputation by good deeds. |
| 1:38.3 | So when the Stoics talked about the need for an even keel, this was why? When Antoninus |
| 1:43.2 | hands power over to Marcus, his final word was equanimity for a reason. When you're in a volatile |
| 1:49.3 | relationship, when you're being gasslet, it's incredibly important that one has a strong sense |
| 1:53.6 | of self, a strong sense of inner peace. It was Marcus Realis' inner citadel that he relied on |
| 1:59.7 | to get through the abuse that life threw at him. It was his ability to be like the rock that the |
| 2:04.6 | waves crashed over that allowed him to endure each onslaught of praise or adversity. What about you? |
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