There are some conversations that cause us to think, yes, of course, this is why the world is as it is.

And for me, the chat I had with Will Stor about his book, The Status Game, on human life and how to play it is one of those conversations.

I can't stop thinking about it.

The premise is simple. Life is a game, Will writes.

We play for status, if only subtly, with every social interaction,

every contribution we make to work, love, or family life, and every internet post.

We play with how we dress, how we speak, and what we believe.

We play with our lives, with the story we tell of our past and our dreams and plans for the future

Life is not a journey towards a perfect destination

It's a game that never ends

This idea keeps popping up in my mind, saying,

yes, this is yet another example of our innate human desire for status.

That's the thought I had when I read Jonathan Heights viral new book

The Anxious Generation about how our children and teenagers today respond to the

digital world.

Status games are everywhere.

In the obsession boys have with winning video games

to the tireless desire for social affirmation

that plagues so many girls. Next week we will be

releasing my conversation with Jonathan in two parts. It's a good one.

Essential listening for parents and highly relevant I think to all of us who navigate the digital world.

Until then, you might consider this conversation with Will to be your homework.

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