I heard a voice as audible as my own.

Say, Neecy, don't be a selfish hever.

It's other people.

Now that's what the voice said to me.

Don't judge my voice. This is got sex and money. Sex and I am really glad to be here with you tonight in Los Angeles

as part of this festival that's celebrating what women podcasters are making the work at festival.

It's really an honor to be here in this incredibly beautiful theater.

I hope you get to see it before the lights went down.

Our show is about the things we think about a lot and need to talk

about more. And tonight we're talking about a life phase where there's a lot to think about

and a lot to talk about. Our 20s. When I think about my 20s, what I remember is feeling like I

had this clear track in front of me that immediately came to an abrupt end when school ended and everything

that had felt somewhat familiar fell away and I had to learn how to support myself.

I had to think about whether I needed more schooling to keep supporting myself into my career.

But really one of the things I thought the most about was sex and whether I knew how to do it and

whether I was doing it enough and whether people wanted to have sex with me

and then finally realizing I got to think about whether I wanted to have sex with them.

But there's a lot that goes into that phase of life and we asked death sex and money

listeners over the last couple of months if they were in their 20s what questions

they had in their lives as they were beginning adulthood and y'all had lot of questions. So we're going to do

some life advice at the end of this show with my incredible guests who are here tonight.

I am so stoked with these women that are here. Terry Coleman

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