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ManTalks Podcast

Life After De-Sexualizing My Brain (And What To Do)

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Relationships, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.8591 Ratings

🗓️ 11 January 2024

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Talking points: mindset, relationships The biggest video I launched in 2023 is called "De-Sexualizing My Brain Changed My Life". Naturally, I've gotten a lot of followup comments and questions about what my life has looked like since I started that process. TL;DR: it's a good thing. Here's why. (00:00:00) - Intro and noting some of the comments that have been made (00:01:26) - This isn’t about becoming a monk, it’s about having better control and influence (00:04:58) - Remember, social media is there to grab your attention. It’ll use sex for that (00:06:52) - I am WAY less stressed—and for one significant reason (00:08:59) - I have much, much cleaner conversations with women AND it reinforces the relationship I’m in (00:11:07) - It’s led to the woman that I’m with feeling safer Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | and yes, even TikTok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

What's going on, team? Today we're going to be talking about life after desexualizing my brain.

0:08.9

What does that actually look like and what are some of the key things that I did to get there?

0:13.1

Now, obviously, this is a big topic. I actually shared a video recently that you can check out

0:17.6

on my channel called How Desexualizing My Brain Changed My Life,

0:21.6

and I give some very detailed experiences in there that can support you if you're looking to de-sexualize your brain. I'm going to talk about what's on the other side, because for a lot of men, they say, well, what's it like? How is it actually that different? Is it really that big of a deal. And I can unequivocally tell you, yes, yes, it is. The first thing that I want to say is that

0:40.2

desexualizing my brain, is it really that big of a deal? And I can unequivocally tell you, yes, yes, it is. The first thing that

0:39.0

I want to say is that desexualizing my brain from me was not about some celibate oriented way of

0:46.2

living. It wasn't about becoming puritanical or purist. That wasn't it at all. It was very

0:53.6

interesting to read a lot of the comments in the

0:55.7

desexualizing my brain video that I put out because so many guys, first off, I realized how many

1:01.9

needed it, right? And that video has over 400,000 views. Like a lot of guys have tuned into it.

1:07.2

But what I started to realize was that a lot of men not only needed that content, but there

1:11.5

was some resistance against like, well, I don't want to turn myself into some puritanical,

1:16.7

you know, loser that never has any sexual thoughts and is completely disconnected from his

1:22.0

sexual energy. And so one of the things I want to say is I am absolutely way more connected to my own sexual

1:30.6

energy and my own sexual potency in a much healthier way, I would say, in a much more

1:35.9

effective way and in a way where I actually have influence over my sexual energy and my

1:43.4

sex drive.

1:48.1

And that for me for a long time was a big problem. I felt out of control with my sex drive and my sexual energy. It was leaking everywhere. I used to have

1:55.2

this 79 Mustang that would leak oil and you'd come out to the driveway in the morning, then the, the freaking car would

2:02.3

be like leaking a little bit of oil everywhere, and you'd drive down the road and like little drips

2:06.4

of, I know it's terrible, right? But that was like me and my sexual energy. I was just leaking

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