Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't

grown tired of this voice just yet, you'll love my ReFocus podcast. On ReFocus I

take a deeper dive with a respected thinker on different aspects of culture. I

ask those hard questions that maybe they don't get that often and I don't

shy away from challenging topics to help you share God's grace, truth, and love

with others. So listen to ReFocus with Jim Daley on your favorite streaming app

today. Thank you for downloading the focus on the family marriage podcast. You

can find more relationship insights at focusonthefamily.com slash marriage

podcast. Hey this is John Fuller and the truth is our producers scripted the

following line for me to open this podcast with. An uncomfortable truth is that

Dina knows my faults better than anyone else. And then he suggested I tell a

short story. I'm just going to leave you your phone. Why don't we get Dina on

the phone? No, no, no, she knows my faults better than anybody else in the

world and she still puts up with and loves me and I am a blessed man. I'm John

and along with me we have Greg and Aaron Smiley. They're the folks in charge of

the marriage department here at Focus on the Family and we're going to hear

more from a conversation that Greg and Dr. Bob Paul had with Jim Daley and me

discussing a book they co-authored called Nine Lies that will destroy your

marriage. And they previously mentioned the first five lies on other episodes

of this podcast. Look for those right now. We're going to get into lies number six

and seven. Let me hit a phrase and get your response before we move on to lie

number seven. And that is irreconcilable differences. The courts kind of

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