Libidos, Love and Longterm Relationships with Asa and David

Come Curious

Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 783 Ratings

🗓️ 4 September 2025

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Summary

This week, Florence is joined by the ultimate love duo — Asa and David, relationship coaches, partners, and parents, who are keeping it raw, real, and ultra practical when it comes to long-term love. From mismatched libidos to conflict spirals, morning routines to raising a baby, they’re spilling the kind of advice that makes you go, “Oof… why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?” We dive into how to fight fair (without the silent treatment or full-blown meltdowns), why honesty only works if you can handle hearing the uncomfortable stuff, and how to bring back intimacy when Netflix and exhaustion have taken over your evenings. Asa and David share their own story too — from a suitcase that turned into six months of living together, to a move abroad, to parenthood — and how they built a foundation that can hold both deep healing and wild love. Expect laughter, vulnerability, and so many “aha” moments as we ask: what does it really take to keep desire, connection, and teamwork alive once the honeymoon fades? Curious f**kers, if you’ve ever thought “are we normal?” when it comes to fights, mismatched sex drives, or parenting stress — this episode is your permission slip to breathe, laugh, and know you’re not alone. ASA's Links: IG @coachwithasa The Boundary Blueprint - Asa Baav (free download): www.asabaav.com/the-boundary-blueprint/ Unapologetic 2025 - Asa Baav: www.asabaav.com/unapologetic-2025/ DAVID'S Links: YT ⁨@TheAuthenticMan⁩ IG @theauthenticman_ Breaking The Chains of Avoidance: www.theauthenticman.net/btca-sep-2025 FREE GIFT Why You Keep Pulling Away (Even When You Don’t Want To): ⁠www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page⁠ To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @_thesassyshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	You're listening to Come Curious, Libido's Love and Long-Term Relationships.
0:16.0	Hello Curious Fuckers, welcome back to another solo episode with me, Florence. And today I am so excited
0:25.0	to be talking about long-term relationships and getting all of the tips and advice from the
0:34.0	amazing Orsa and David who are relationship coaches and they're also in a relationship with each other
0:40.8	and they're also parents. So I couldn't think of anyone more perfect to ask on the show to get all
0:48.4	these deep, deep insights. So whether you're struggling with libido in your relationship, conflict resolve, you can't figure out how to communicate without starting arguments, how do you have check-ins, and also how does having a baby affect the dynamic in your relationship and what advice would they give to themselves
1:13.6	to know before that even happened? What did they learn in that whole process? I'm so excited for
1:20.6	this one because I feel like I am just going to soak up all of these tips like a sponge.
1:27.2	I need this advice and I am so going to soak up all of these tips like a sponge. I need this advice.
1:29.0	And I am so ready to receive.
1:32.2	So I hope you are as well.
1:34.2	Let's get them on.
1:35.1	Welcome back to the podcast.
1:38.8	You know what's funny?
1:39.4	I did an episode with you guys on my solo podcast ages ago.
1:42.9	And now we're back on a solo episode of Come Curious, which is very exciting.
1:47.6	Very.
1:48.2	Thank you for having us back.
1:49.4	Yeah, yeah.
1:49.9	Many things have changed.
1:52.0	Many things have changed.
1:55.4	It was like maybe four years ago.
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