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Find Your Food Voice

LF 074: I only eat in front of the TV + want to change. {with Rachel Cole}

Find Your Food Voice

Julie Duffy Dillon RDN

Health & Fitness, Nutrition, Mental Health

4.9750 Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2017

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

Do you tend to eat on the couch and with distractions, rather than at the dining room table? Are you someone that avoids the dining room table because of past trauma related to mealtime? Are you just trying to navigate this whole food peace journey, and are looking for some direction? Listen now for some steps you can take today.

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Episode's Key Points:

  • Vulnerability is a part of healing our relationship with food, but there is also a time and place for NOT being vulnerable! It's all about balance.
  • Rachel Cole joins to talk more about vulnerability and food peace!
  • Having a nourishing and safe place during mealtime as a child is super important! If we don't have that, it can really impact our relationship with food and eating in adulthood.
  • Expand your choices!! Your food behavior shouldn't be dictated but "should's," but instead by what you honestly want to do.
  • There's a time and a place for non-distracted eating, but don't force it!
  • Eat where you feel SAFE.
  • There's no timeline, should's, or black and white thinking... it's all about being "choiceful!"
  • Pleasure is an important part of the eating experience, and we should embrace that. Make sure that the food you're eating is something that you WANT to experience.
  • How do we re-parent our traumatized childhood selves without giving them all the power? Reach out to a therapist to work through this struggle, and have an active dialogue with that child!
  • Put in the effort to make the dining area welcoming and safe... create a warm environment, and make the area available to you with zero pressure to eat there.
  • Make small steps... what would it be like to have one meal at the table? Or just a cup of tea? Start with the lowest hanging fruit! Immerse yourself in the experience with non-judgmental awareness.
  • We should strive to make ALL areas of our literal and metaphorical houses welcoming and comfortable for us.
  • Have compassion for the ways that we take care of ourselves, even if our coping mechanisms aren't the most sustainable!!
  • If your experience doesn't feel good, start getting curious about what would make it feel better.
  • EXPERIMENT!! Explore, get feedback from your body and your emotions, and continue to check in.
  • We are the expert of our own bodies... connect to your body, embrace embodiment, and explore body trust!
  • Listen to a podcast or invite or call a friend while eating if you're feeling lonely and want company, and don't feel like watching the television.
  • Don't be afraid to reach out for support in any capacity to help you through this food peace journey!

Show Notes:

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0:39.9

Say goodbye to the food police and hello to peace. Welcome to the love food podcast, hosted by

0:46.9

dietitian and food behavior expert Julie Duffy Dillon. This authentically engineered series is in

0:53.4

the form of a love letter, welcoming you to

0:56.3

reconnect with food. Now pour a cup of coffee or a margarita, and let's begin.

1:18.4

Hi and welcome to episode 74 of the Love Food Podcast. I am Julie Duffy Dillon,

1:23.7

registered dietitian, and partner on your food piece journey. I'm so glad you're here.

1:31.6

Thank you for connecting today. Whenever I read general healthy eating advice, there seems to be a consistent recommendation to eat at the dining room table. And I'm trying really hard to not just say

1:39.0

blah, blah, blah, because it is such a common recommendation. And I appreciate why they recommend that.

1:48.5

You know, and as I say this, I'm like, who's this they people? Anyway, but I do appreciate why

1:53.5

they recommend it. It's important to not be distracted while we eat. Yet, I think the advice

2:00.5

comes across as very black and white. And what if you're someone

2:03.9

who can't, you know, and maybe you've tried to eat at the kitchen table, but you're just finding

2:09.6

it a really hard thing to master or hard to tolerate? And eating in front of the TV is the only way

2:16.6

you can tolerate a meal. Certainly,

2:19.1

distracted eating is not a common thing that we recommend. Yet, for some people, distracted eating

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