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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Lewis Howes on The Skill You Need to Succeed in Today’s World (Fan Fav)

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Education, News, News Commentary, Philosophy, Technology, Society & Culture, Business, Self-improvement

4.75.1K Ratings

🗓️ 12 July 2025

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Your life story begins as a child no matter who you are. Though our experiences are all uniquely different, pain and frustration from whatever reason usually leaves you scared, angry, and sometimes bitter. When Lewis Howes came face to face with his anger and rage, he got to work on understanding himself, his triggers and how he could improve everyday. After years of practice, he is sharing with you what doing the inner work involves and how feedback has become a critical part of his success. From sharing his 2 secret skills for success to exposing how his healing came along side a few f*ck you letters, this episode is packed with solid advice and exploration of what it takes to find great coaches and be great! ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 7-20-21 Check Out Lewis Howes First Interview on Impact Theory: https://youtu.be/YZ9kfXw9H54 If you want more, here’s Lewis Howes’ Top 3 Tips for Impact: https://youtu.be/SEkwkVGaMvk SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Lewis Howes 1:22 | Most Important Skill, Vision 2:45 | Developing Vision 5:48 | What People Are Missing 7:50 | Preparing for Something Greater 9:45 | Perfect Storm for a Break Down 13:27 | Healing from the Shame 14:40 | F*ck You Letters & Darkness 17:28 | Prepared and Facing the Pain 20:44 | Need for Mind, Body, & Emotions 28:07 | Relationship Lessons 32:22 | Delaying Sexual Connection 35:29 | Connection Over Values First? 38:16 | Having Kids & Being Authentic 40:25 | Power of Therapy & Triggers 43:13 | Find Great Coaches & Feedback 44:27 | Practice of Taking Feedback 47:06 | Withstanding Physical Pain 48:02 | Finding Good Coaches 51:17 | Stacking Blind Spots 54:28 | Way of Language Learning 57:02 | Earn Your Respect 59:37 | Defining Greatness Follow Lewis Howes: https://lewishowes.com/ What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... STARTING a business: join me here at ZERO TO FOUNDER SCALING a business: see if you qualify here. Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here. ********************************************************************** If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you. ********************************************************************** Join me live on my Twitch stream. I'm live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Rated T for Teen.

0:02.0

Each year, thousands of adults lose their shred.

0:05.0

It's an epidemic simply known as shred loss, but it doesn't have to be this way.

0:09.0

Because rekindling your shred is as easy as playing the new Tony Hawk's Pro Skater 3 and 4.

0:14.0

With new parks, cross-platform multiplayer, and sick new game modes,

0:19.0

we can put an end to shred loss everywhere.

0:21.6

Let the new Tony Hawk's Pro Skater 3 and 4 and show the world that the shred's not dead.

0:26.6

Get Tony Hawk's Pro Skater 3 and 4 available now.

0:29.6

The thing that I've learned, especially in this last relationship, was probably my greatest teacher of all.

0:39.3

I loved this woman, care deeply about this person, want the best for this person.

0:46.3

And what I have learned is love is not enough.

0:50.3

Love is not enough for a long-term committed, healthy relationship to fully work.

0:59.1

Hey, everybody, welcome to another episode of Impact Theory. Today, I am here with the dean of the

1:04.8

School of Greatness, Lewis Howes. Lewis, my man, welcome back to the show, dude. Good to see you,

1:09.8

brother. Dude, it is so good to see you.

1:11.1

I really do enjoy our time together, so I'm super stoked to have you.

1:14.9

Yeah, but I want to ask you, you have really created something pretty amazing for yourself.

1:20.4

What is the skill that you have that you think is most important in your success?

1:25.4

Vision.

1:26.2

A hundred percent vision.

1:27.1

Explain that.

1:28.8

From a young age, I've been able to see things that I thought for myself that I wasn't

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