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Therapy in a Nutshell

Letting Go of Shame as an HSP Highly Sensitive Person: Anxiety Course Day 9

Therapy in a Nutshell

Therapy in a Nutshell -Emma McAdam

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness:mental Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

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🗓️ 12 October 2023

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Break the Anxiety Cycle in 30 Days- Online Course- https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/anxietyskills Being highly sensitive doesn’t mean that you take things personally or that you’re fragile. It means your nervous system processes information more deeply and intensely than the average person. You are more impacted by lights, smells, sounds, body language, facial expressions, and emotions than the average person. While this sensitivity sometimes requires extra time to rest, recharge or process, being an HSP is a difference, not a disability. It’s something you’re born with, and when you let go of the cultural shame around it, it can be one of your greatest strengths. Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell Learn more in one of my in-depth mental health courses: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com Support my mission on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/therapyinanutshell Sign up for my newsletter: https://www.therapyinanutshell.com Check out my favorite self-help books: https://kit.co/TherapyinaNutshell/best-self-help-books  Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger Institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org or 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC

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0:00.0

Hi and welcome to the Therapy in Nutschell podcast. I'm Emma McAdam, a licensed marriage and family

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therapist, and it's my mission to create easy to understand educational content about therapeutic

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skills and topics that anyone can use in their daily life. Stay tuned to until the end of the

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video to learn more about my mental health courses, discounts, and other news related to therapy

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in a nutshell. I hope you enjoy

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the episode. Each podcast episode comes from a corresponding video you can find on the Therapy in a

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nutshell YouTube channel. Also, these podcasts are educational and don't replace the advice or

0:34.1

direction you may be receiving from a therapist or other health professional.

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All right, let's jump in.

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The moment I started to see my own sensitivity as a gift, not a flaw, my world changed.

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Now, you may have anxiety and not be an HSP, but many people with anxiety are.

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You've probably been told you're too sensitive.

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I have been.

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I've been shamed for crying in class as a kid about all those dumb books where dogs die.

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I've been shamed for taking things personally,

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for reading too much into situations,

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or even just thinking too much about a problem.

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I've been told that

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my flaw was caring or being too considerate. Sensitive has been a bad word, an insult,

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a sign of weakness. The idealized personality for our Western society was to be tough on

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feeling unaffected by the world around them. And it's easy for us sensitive people to hear this message and to internalize it,

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to believe that we are weak or too fragile or that something's wrong with us.

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