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Date Yourself Instead

Let’s talk situationships

Date Yourself Instead

Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.3K Ratings

🗓️ 19 December 2022

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

One of the questions I get in my DM’s regularly is: Am I doing the right thing by staying in this situationship? As always, no pressure to jump out of a situationship if you’re loving where you’re at but if you want to address the pros and cons, we are talking expectations, standards, communication and genuine happiness. If your happiness is being compromised right now, remember that you deserve unconditional love and you are amazing! Thanks for listening!

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0:00.0

Welcome to Day Yourself Instead, Day Yourself Instead, what does it mean to Day Yourself Instead?

0:05.0

I'm just gonna learn how to love myself and that's it.

0:11.0

Okay, so on today's episode, I wanted to talk about a very highly requested topic,

0:17.0

situationships.

0:19.0

Truthfully, we've all been there and we've all experienced a situation ship at one point or another.

0:25.0

And a situation ship just to clarify for those of you who don't know the actual definition,

0:30.0

I look this up on Google for you guys.

0:33.0

It is a romantic or sexual relationship that is not considered to be formal or established.

0:38.0

This is the type of relationship where you're not really sure where you stand with this person

0:43.0

as far as if you're in really any sort of commitment or not.

0:46.0

This is the type of situation where you end up driving yourself into the craziest version of you

0:53.0

because you're always left confused and with one million questions

0:56.0

and you're always wondering what the other person is fucking thinking

0:59.0

because you really like them and you're having a good time with them

1:03.0

and everything seems amazing, but you really just don't know where you stand in their mind.

1:07.0

And there's not that clear, defined nature of the relationship.

1:11.0

There is no right or wrong to have a situation ship.

1:14.0

A situation ship doesn't have to be a good thing or a bad thing.

1:17.0

It can be a very neutral thing.

1:19.0

If you're having fun and you're in a specific phase of your life

1:23.0

or maybe you just got out of a relationship and you meet someone new

1:26.0

but you're not ready to commit to anyone,

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