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Currently, my wife is out of town. We've been married seven years. For the past 20, I have been addicted to pornography.

This is Depp, Sex, and Money.

Hey man, got a big box of porn for you.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

I don't actually have sex other than when I do porn.

And need to talk about more.

I thought all pornst dress had fake boobs.

I'm Anna Sale.

Hi. Hi, I'd ask that you not use my name or my location. I would like to remain anonymous.

We got this voice memo last spring from a listener I'll call James.

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