Let's Talk About It w/ Anna Kai
Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
Violet Benson
4.8 • 4.1K Ratings
🗓️ 13 July 2023
⏱️ 69 minutes
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Summary
Step into a world of dating wisdom, gorgeous! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, we're diving headfirst into the realm of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we navigate the complexities of love.
Today, Violetta sits down with dating expert Anna Kai. Anna's insights transcend the conventional narratives surrounding dating and offer a deeper understanding of the barriers to authentic connections. With a keen eye for patterns and a compassionate approach, she sheds light on the common obstacles that prevent individuals from forging fulfilling relationships.
From recognizing red flags and embracing our self-worth to understanding the importance of effective communication, this episode is a guidebook for the modern woman seeking fulfillment in her relationships. We'll delve into the power of intuition, the significance of relationship labels, and the transformative journey of healing from childhood trauma. Along the way, we'll share personal stories of heartbreak and growth, debunk myths surrounding singlehood, and empower you to embrace new beginnings.
Get ready to rewrite the rules of dating, Besties, and step into a world of endless possibilities.
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What to Listen For:
- 00:00 Intro
- 01:48 The most common question you always get asked?
- 04:05 We fight to make up not to break up
- 05:31 Don’t ignore the red flags
- 08:43 How do you stop being that girl that guys wanted to date but not commit to?
- 11:52 Do you now like relationship labels?
- 13:57 How would you know if someone is serious about you?
- 17:16 5 things that can save you from ending up with the wrong guy
- 18:26 All your friends and family hate him but you don’t see it
- 20:03 Why do you keep other ‘platonic’ relationships around?
- 22:32 Childhood trauma
- 26:13 “Okay, I’m done chasing these guys.”
- 28:44 You need to be dumped by the man you love to become the woman you deserved
- 35:49 Leaving the man you love for the man you deserve
- 43:03 Why do some women remain single?
- 47:30 Every breakup is actually just the beginning of another chapter of your life
- 52:41 He didn’t change, he just stopped pretending
- 55:47 Why you should not accept his apology
- 01:02:26 Every guy that dumped you, led you to the guy are with right now
- 01:04:22 Best/worst advice you've gotten
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | This fucking pussy, excuse my language, or not actually calls my friend, my best friend, |
| 0:05.7 | who she, you know, is sort of in touch with him because they were all in the same class |
| 0:08.8 | or whatever I didn't want you. And he asks, sort of, she can ask me whether he can talk to me |
| 0:13.7 | and apologize for how he handled the break up six years ago. Yeah, and six years is insane amount |
| 0:19.4 | of time to just swim. Be like, hey, by the way, do I have an apology? Can we, yeah? And he's such a |
| 0:24.6 | pussy, like he knew you had the same number, you contacted your friend that's pathetic. |
| 0:28.3 | It's file events in your favorite meme queen in the big city you didn't ask for, but |
| 0:32.8 | be welcome to almost adulting. Almost. Are you ready? Hi, Vasties. Welcome to brand new almost |
| 0:45.1 | adulting the largest self-love podcast and movement. Your number one destination for personal |
| 0:49.8 | growth and mental health. I'm your big sister and your host, Violetta. Today, my guests, |
| 0:56.6 | you guys are going to be of Susslethers, much as I am of Susslethers. Anna, Kai, she spent her 20s |
| 1:02.3 | dating all of the wrong men as most of us are still doing that in New York City. So you don't have to. |
| 1:08.4 | She is known for her. Get ready with me videos on TikTok. I'm sure you've seen all of them. It's |
| 1:13.2 | maybe both. Obviously, I'm going to leave everything in the description, everything about her, |
| 1:17.4 | where she dishes basically just no BS dating and life advice while doing her makeup. She uses |
| 1:22.9 | her platforms to champion women and marginalized voices and to remind her community of two million |
| 1:28.4 | combined bitties that love is truly not lost at all. All right, let's get started. You know, |
| 1:34.3 | what you guys today had such a day, but I thought it would be the perfect interview to have, especially |
| 1:40.1 | because in July right now, a lot of us are traveling, a lot of us are getting into romance, |
| 1:45.8 | flings and all these things. And we have so many questions and trust me. If I got her on the show, |
| 1:52.8 | that means I think her advice is legit. So before we get started, I kind of just want to ask you, |
| 1:59.3 | what would you say the most common thing that you always get asked over and over again, because |
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