Well, howdy there internet people, it's Bo again. So today we are going to talk about

trains and an account on social media, flags, and a really long message that I'm going to read all of because I think some people

maybe should hear it and I think it's really illuminating and one of the questions is interesting.

Before I read the message I have to give you some context.

There is an account on Twitter called Ask Aubrey. This account shares a lot of examples of men's behavior that is, let's just say, less than ideal at this point.

And last night I saw something that came from that account that was a date.

It was a video that looked like it had been pulled from Tik-Toc.

It was a date that was an absolute train wreck if the train was pulling a cargo of red flags. It was just really bad. A concise summary of it. He basically like kind of forces his way into ordering for

her, getting something that she didn't want, she wanted a glass of red wine.

He's like, no, that's too many calories for you.

It's just all bad, and then when the check comes, she wants to pay for her portion and he's like

no you will not embarrass me like it's it's bad so I retweeted, it led to this message.

I have a question that feel like I should explain first.

From the time I was 16 to the time I was 22, I followed PUAs and men's

influencers. If you're not familiar with that terminology, these are the men who tell men how to pick up women and how to be an alpha and all of that stuff.

Influencers and I did as you would say what my bettors told me.

I was a trademark nice guy.

If you don't know what that means it means not a nice guy.

About a year and a half ago I started following Ask Aubrey.

I started following her to troll. Like I said, I was not a nice guy.

I would go to the profiles of the people who replied and find things to mess with them about.

Over time, I noticed that these were actually the women I

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