Well, howdy there internet people, it's Bow again. So today we are going to talk about

eight months of change. Changing as a person over eight months and that process and a woman who is quote

southern sweet and we're going to do this because I got a message it's a long

one but I'm going to read the whole thing because I think there's a

There's probably a lot in this that a whole lot of people could stand here and there's two questions and two answers. Okay so please

answer this because I don't have anybody else I can ask.

I'm 22.

I grew up very conservative, then I moved to a big city from my small town when I was 19. Eight months ago a trans woman

started where I work. I was always taught anything gay was horrible and to be

honest trans people grossed me out at least the idea of

one because I had never actually met one she was nice to me so I was nice to

her I called her her and after about a week it became really easy to do.

She's very feminine, southern sweet and she's pretty.

We started hanging out outside of work.

Recently I went to We started hanging out outside of work.

Recently I went to a gay club with her and met some of her friends.

With her, it was easy to see her as a woman because everything about her is feminine. I didn't see her friends that way.

I kept thinking of them as men who were trans rather than women. Obviously I didn't say anything like this to them. I've learned from

the woman he works with how hard it is for them and wasn't going to make it harder.

He even danced with one of them, but it was in the back of my mind. I remember

you saying I said what I said when somebody told you to say trans woman instead of woman.

I thought I should ask you because anybody I know who I could answer or who

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