everything you go through, you learn. I think that all men should study and understand

post-partum. Agreed. Because the problem is I had no clue. And if I could really apologize

to my kids mom for one major thing, it was my ignorance to how post-partum works. And I'm going to

tell you why.

Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and I'm Meela. Happy Wednesday.

Happy Hamptay my love. How you feeling? I'm great you guys. We are in Miami. Hey, you know,

this is the first time, this is the first time being in Miami together.

True. And also recording in Miami the best. I don't think we should have ever been here in our 20s

together. You know what? I'm a firm believer that our friendship happened towards our end of

our late 20s, early 30s because we wouldn't be able to handle being friends in our younger 20s.

It would have just been like level 10, ratchetness. So for the best of the people for humanity and

for ourselves, we've only made it to Miami together at 35 for more, a little bit more mature.

So yeah, I'm having a good time. I can you take, this is my first time really talking a lot today.

So I feel like you can hear the recovery in my voice.

A lot of things have happened in the last three days.

That's true. I'm Sir Friend's birthday, so we're out here. Shout out to Cashley.

And so we've been, we've been, you know, good, momming, bad-joicing. I feel like every time,

like I come and I share, if I have this mental, like conversation with myself and I'm like,

you know what? You're older, like we're gonna relax. We're gonna like get creative and relax,

drink a lot of water. We're gonna do some work and then I get to where I'm going and then I lose

all sense of all of that shit. And I'm like, drugs, alcohol, pull parties.

So that's where I'm at. Anyway, how are you feeling about your, you've been kind of turned up.

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