Let It Go Ft. Jess Hilarious
Pour Minds Podcast
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.8 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 5 June 2026
⏱️ 72 minutes
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Summary
This week on Pour Minds, Lex and Drea sit down with comedian, actress, radio personality, author, wife, and mother Jess Hilarious for an honest conversation about relationships, co-parenting, marriage, success, and personal growth.
Jess opens up about the inspiration behind her new book, Till Death Do We Parent, sharing the real-life journey that took her from a toxic relationship with her son's father to building a healthy co-parenting partnership rooted in respect and accountability. She discusses the boundaries that helped protect her marriage, lessons learned from past relationships, and why so many people struggle to let go of unhealthy dynamics.
The ladies also dive into comedy culture, cancel culture, social media relationships, dating in your 30s, and whether successful women should share their platforms with their partners. With plenty of laughs, personal stories, and unfiltered opinions, this episode is packed with gems about love, healing, parenting, and knowing when to choose peace over pride.
Grab a drink and tune in—because this conversation is one every grown woman (and man) needs to hear.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:02.6 | Guaranteed Human. Everybody we date pretty much if they're in our age range or up, they have children. And I'm not going to lie, I'm so proud of y'all because the dating pool is like shit and piss. Yeah. So, and you have to be very careful. That's why I also talk about in the book, you've got to get to know a person before you create a village with this person. Absolutely. we're creating people yeah and then your kids grow up and you wonder why he's shooting up shit |
| 0:25.1 | and he going to school and he talked and he because you didn't do a proper diagnosis on his father |
| 0:31.2 | you didn't evaluate this nigga at dinner you was on the phone talking about he got me at stk like he just |
| 0:37.0 | sent 500 on me, bitch. |
| 0:38.3 | No. |
| 0:39.3 | Truffle butter. |
| 0:40.3 | Truffle butter, like all that caviar, dude, like from all the scamming money. |
| 0:45.3 | And that's crazy. |
| 0:46.3 | I think the questions on a date should be when, especially when you see potential in a guy, |
| 0:52.3 | whatever that may be these days, |
| 0:54.6 | you gotta ask like, yo, do you have both of your parents? |
| 0:57.9 | And that may not be, it may not be so. |
| 1:00.2 | All right, cool. |
| 1:01.4 | Who raised you? |
| 1:02.4 | Okay. |
| 1:03.4 | What are your thoughts and what are your, like, morals? |
| 1:06.6 | Like, what are your thoughts on, like, parenting? |
| 1:08.4 | How are you when you get angry? |
| 1:10.6 | You know what I'm saying? |
| 1:11.3 | Like, do you ever see yourself with kids? Did you ever see yourself married? Like, these are all the questions that my husband asked me when he met me to the point where I was ready to get up and fight this name. Yeah. And you need to ask my math question. Ooh. Plus 10 plus 8 minus 2 plus 6, whole ad, nigger. Yeah. Damn. |
| 1:27.8 | Damn. |
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