Let Him Lead?: Episode 735
The Boundless Show
Focus on the Family
4.7 • 772 Ratings
🗓️ 3 March 2022
⏱️ 56 minutes
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Summary
The desire for control in dating, plus navigating life transitions, and are you spending too much time with your boyfriend or girlfriend?
Featured musical artist: Various Artists ( https://www.integritymusic.com/ )
Roundtable: Who’s Leading Your Relationship?
In an ideal world, everyone in a relationship would be perfectly sacrificial, always seeking the good of the other person, and finding a just-right balance of leadership and following, giving and taking. But we’re not in the real world. Here at Boundless, we find that daters get especially frustrated because they don’t think their partner is doing the “right thing.” Generally, women say men are too passive, and men say women are too controlling. Is this true? How do we encourage godly leadership in men while not taking a woman’s voice away? Our guests share how they navigated the tricky space of leadership and control while dating and discussing marriage with their now-spouses.
Culture: The Only Constant Is Change
Changes and transitions are part of life. You go from college to the professional world, you move to a new place, change jobs, change jobs again, start dating, then transition to marriage and having kids. But is there a way to do life transitions well when there are no easy formulas? Pastor Mark Bates just went through a major career transition and shares how he trusted God to get him through. He also reflects on transitions back when he was a young adult, and how everything has prepared him for where he is today.
Inbox: Am I Spending Too Much Time With My Girlfriend?
He recently started dating a girl, but she always wants to spend time together. It’s very early in the dating relationship, and with work and other commitments he’s starting to feel a bit overwhelmed. How should he handle this? Lisa Anderson weighs in.
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| 0:00.0 | Friends, it is that time of year when people contact you and ask you to bless them as we are in the Christmas season and heading into a new year with a monetary gift. |
| 0:12.2 | And you know what? |
| 0:12.8 | I'm just going to go ahead and do that on behalf of Boundless. |
| 0:15.8 | This is Lisa Anderson, host of The Boundless Show. |
| 0:19.8 | And we are in our year-end giving campaign here |
| 0:22.9 | at Focus on the Family and Boundless, and your gift this year is going to be doubled in order |
| 0:28.9 | to further the work of Boundless as we minister to young adults. |
| 0:33.2 | How do you give? |
| 0:34.0 | Go to Boundless.org slash donate. |
| 0:36.6 | You can give today, and your gift will be matched |
| 0:39.6 | by a generous donor who has offered to put up that financial resource in order to stretch |
| 0:45.1 | gifts even further. So boundless.org slash donate, you have the opportunity to take us into the new |
| 0:50.9 | year here at boundless as we continue to provide great content and conversation |
| 0:55.9 | for you and everyone you love. Thanks so much in advance. |
| 1:02.0 | Boundless Show. |
| 1:13.0 | Lisa Anderson here with you. |
| 1:15.1 | Happy March to you. |
| 1:16.8 | Maybe for some of you, it's already spring. |
| 1:19.6 | Probably not for a lot of us. |
| 1:21.5 | So whatever, we'll forgive you. |
| 1:23.7 | But as always, coming up on the show, a little preview for you. |
| 1:27.2 | For our inbox, we have a guy who recently started dating a girl, but she just, But as always, coming up on the show, a little preview for you. |
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