You can't think your way out of overthinking.

And that's what all of us try to do.

That's Jacob Sokol, and he's trying to help you figure out what the fuck you should do with your life.

Jacob's a friend and neighbor here in Brooklyn.

I met him on the internet back in 2013, and no, it wasn't on Grindr.

We met on Twitter. He runs a website called Sensefifee.com

and is host of the WTF Should I Do With My Life podcast, where he mentors millennials struggling

to find their path in life.

You know, I'm on this self-knowledge quest to figure out more and more what's possible with life.

In our conversation, we talk about how he got started out and some of his early struggles and breakthroughs.

Holy shit. Dude, that was like someone handed me a briefcase with a million dollars.

We talk about everything from personal finance to my sex life.

If I were saying, Matt, think about when you and your girlfriend had that epic sex, right?

It was like the best 20 seconds of my life. My name's Matt Diabella, and you're listening to The Ground Up Show.

You are a life coach. Is that the term you would use, or is that, it's kind of seen as...

I'm a Jedi mind trick master.

You know, I actually want to start using a different term because life coach, I think a lot of people look at that like something is wrong with their life.

But if I say success accelerator or, you know, peak performance coach, like there's a different connotation.

You're like, oh, fine me up for that um but what

i must say is that i'm really enjoying drinking this beer while it's good dude right isn't it's nice

it's really nice you know i am very interested in a niche that i do not believe exists in the market

which is drunk life coaching oh drunk life coaching and that drunk podcasting life coaching. And that drunk podcasting.

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