Leaving Something (or Someone) You Love
School of Self-Image
Tonya Leigh
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 9 November 2022
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
It's all in the mind!
Welcome to today's episode of the 'School of Self-Image' Podcast with host and self-image coach, Tonya Leigh, where personal development meets style. This a go-to podcast for women who desire to transform their self-image so that they can create mind-blowing results in their lives.
Will you agree if I say love can either be the most beautiful experience or the most painful when being left behind? These kinds of experiences are part of one's life which is inevitable. It's in our nature to feel and be part of the process. But at the end of the day, it's still your choice.
Leaving something (or someone) you love is a situation that most of us have experienced in life, right? As I know the emotions and thoughts might be overflowing, but you really have to decide whether to be stuck where you are or make a stand to move forward with your life.
It all comes back to your choice ~ are you gonna be the same version of yourself forever? Or are you gonna leap yourself up, act smart, and accept the situation for good?
So if you're unsure yet of which one to choose, listen to find out how you can turn this leaving situation into something positive and bright!
What I Cover In This Episode:
1:34 - How to figure out the reason you're leaving
4:17 - Why you should start to take responsibility
6:10 - How to know if a person, situation, or experience belongs in your future
8:29 - The importance of having a niche
10:17 - Pointers #1: Don't second guess yourself
12:26 - Pointers #2: Be ready and be willing to feel the discomfort of leaving
14:29 - Pointers #3: Spend time being grateful for that person or that situation
16:41 - Pointers #4: Make sure to have your own back
17:51 - Pointers #5: Be okay with people being upset and disappointed
18:04 - Pointers #6: Have the time to look toward where you're going
21:24 - What is your greatest act of love
Quotes:
"You are your own answer."
"Here's the secret, the success is within you. As when you have a successful self-image, you can make any niche work."
"Just make sure you're leaving for the right reason. You are leaving so that you can grow and evolve and place yourself in expansive environments. You're not leaving to find something outside of you to fix your feelings."
"You get to decide how you feel no matter where you are. And you can also place yourself in places where it's so much easier to feel the way you want to feel."
Useful Resources:
- FREE Download: Self-Image Manifesto
- The School of Self-Image
- Connect with Self-Image Coach Tonya Leigh:
Want to know what I have learned from recording 300 episodes of my podcast? Listen to this episode3: https://youtu.be/Alr6CdhDWGo
Discover the importance of a style statement here: https://youtu.be/MefUFgIrbjI
Thanks for listening to the School of Self-Image Podcast with Self-Image Coach Tonya Leigh.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | It's easier to leave something or someone when it's bad. |
| 0:06.0 | It's toxic. |
| 0:08.0 | It's not serving you. |
| 0:10.0 | But leaving something or someone you love, that's difficult. |
| 0:16.0 | And yet, that may be what is required for you to live your most extraordinary life. |
| 0:24.0 | And I'm sharing my thoughts on this topic in today's episode. |
| 0:28.0 | So, let's dive in. |
| 0:30.0 | Welcome to the School of Self-Image, where personal development meets style. |
| 0:35.0 | Here's your hostess, master life coach, Tonya Lee. |
| 0:41.0 | Hello, hello, my friends. |
| 0:44.0 | I'm recording this before I leave for Scottsdale. |
| 0:47.0 | I'm batching a bunch of podcasts because I'm about to unplug for a whole week |
| 0:52.0 | and hang out with the members of the School of Self-Image. |
| 0:56.0 | I'm so excited to meet you all. |
| 0:59.0 | I know it feels like we already know each other and we sort of do. |
| 1:05.0 | I mean, you all know me because I show up every week and I tell you all the things. |
| 1:09.0 | But I also feel like I know so many of you, especially those of you within the membership, |
| 1:14.0 | because I coach you, I see you within our private group. |
| 1:17.0 | And I do feel like a track's like. |
| 1:21.0 | And so, the people that are attracted to my work, I feel like |
| 1:25.0 | in some ways we have a lot of similarities. |
| 1:28.0 | So, I am so excited to celebrate with you all in Scottsdale. |
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